<p>Hi so I was deferred from Emory and am now in the regular decision pool. Do you think it would be helpful to contact the minority representative for Emory (I'm black)? Also I am currently in this program called "Increasing the odds" which helps even out the playing fields and in being part of this program, I have worked with inner city kids. This means a lot because my dad and family have come from really rough inner cities and as a black female, I understand how it feels to be prejudged because of my background. I didn't mention this at all in my application because I felt as though it would be wrong to get an advantage over other applicants for doing something everyone should do out of the goodness of their heart. Looking back, writing a letter to the minority representative about my commitment to this program could really show another side of who I am and what I stand for. Do you think this would increase my chances of being accepted? </p>
<p>At this point, it would make more sense to see if you could identify (or create) some sort of “watershed event” such as a program culmination or an award ceremony; preferably where you would officiate and give out recognition to participants. Forwarding an announcement about such an event and giving context and background would be a great way to let them know.</p>
<p>By not illuminating a full portrait of yourself, you are not being honest. You are also raising questions about the negative space (“What does she do with all her free time?”). Everyone does things, much of it NOT for recognition. Many are hesitant to “brag” about what is closest to their heart. But when you are asked how you spend your time, it is simply relating facts, not bragging, to answer the question. It is dishonest to leave out activities of significant interest to you from your replies.</p>
<p>You really need to let them know. See if you can find a way in the next 2 months or so to gracefully introduce Emory to this significant facet of your life, in a way that honors you and those you work with.</p>
<p>You really owe it to yourself to practice honestly representing your authentic self. Regardless of its impact on this decision, you will need to practice this skill repeatedly over the course of your life. It is worth doing the work and making the effort to do this right. It will be good practice (and yes, a more full portrait showing your compassion and humanity can only help your application).</p>