It is so hard for girls in my opinion. I only have boys but I think the pressure to be “perfect” is awful. Perhaps you could apply for her to local colleges near where you live so she could live at home at first or maybe a smaller college. The fact that she gets in somewhere could really boost her confidence. I would get her counseling and do not be afraid to change a counselor until you find a good one. I think you should go too if possible to see how you can navigate this difficult time. College is important but I think mental health is more important. If there is anything you can get her involved in where she is focused on healing others, it might help her realize how some things are wonderful in her life. Good luck!!