Interesting topic, and one my wife and I were just discussing given many of the disappointing results reported on CC since last week.
For the kid in the NYT story, seems like nobody (except for preppedparent) is acknowledging fact that he was an URM. If my older daughter (who is an ORM) who had similar stats was a URM, I wouldn’t be surprised if she had run the table, too.
But it can’t be purely “merit based” as preppedparent suggests, because…sorry, but I think it’s fair to say that the ORMs would start to dominate and no one would be happy about that, either. Tough to out-parent Tiger Moms & Dads.
In our household, we are thankfully past the stage of worrying about any of this, thank goodness. But I think future applicants SHOULD start considering limiting things. We have to start counseling kids to limit their “reaches” if their stats don’t warrant it. A few of the “I got rejected everywhere” posts revealed app profiles that indicate that the kid was NEVER going to be a strong candidate at many of schools s/he applied to. Where did the kids in these cases get the impression that they were a strong candidate?
But who will enforce the limits? The kids? The parents? The HS? The Common App? The College Board?
Curious to me that people are calling on the colleges to expand their classes. This strikes me as misplaced. The more selective schools pride themselves on having good student/teacher ratios, right? So how does expanding each incoming class support that? Not to mention that schools have a limited number of beds/classrooms/resources to serve their students.
I don’t buy the “people need to apply to a zillion schools because they need options they can afford” argument either. Frankly, it’s pretty easy to find affordable schools if you are open to attending schools that might not be among the usual suspects. Or schools “beneath” whatever tier higher performing kids think they “deserve” to attend. Apply to schools where you are in the TOP echelon of applicants and the money will most likely be there. But instead, kids apply to all the Ivies with a 32 ACT and some “really good recommendations”.
Perhaps a larger and just as important a question is why are we pushing the myth that “you have to go to college” so much to our kids? Is there no respect or value into going into the trades? I know plenty of electricians and plumbers who seem to be making a lot of money and enjoying great quality of life.
FWIW, my older kid (the NMF-level one) applied to 12 schools. She went 1 for 4 with the super selectives and 8 for 8 with the rest (which represented a range of selectivity). She chose a full-ride at school that is Top 10 in her major of choice over the super selective/prestige school.
ETA: I missed that the kid in the NYT story was got “full-ride” offers even at Ivies (which offer need-based aid only). Which means there is a socio-economic component to his story. Which matters. I’m not taking anything away from the kid…not at all. Good for him. But what I’m saying is that having those factors MATTERS. A LOT.