<p>I can only tell you what our family is doing --</p>
<p>We did not visit financial reach schools that were OOS and costly to see. We have tabled that until after acceptances and aid.</p>
<p>We DID visit 1 financial reach school summer of junior year. It was near other schools we were visiting and at the time it was not as large a financial reach as it is now. I regret it. It wasn’t only son who feel in love with it. I will have a great amount of guilt if he is accepted the cost is just too much. He is well aware of the financial constraints, but it will still hurt as the fit was perfect.</p>