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Homes do not appreciate at a faster rate simply because they are more expensive. (often times, the most rapidly appreciating properties are those that are in the least expensive neighborhoods....neighborhoods that "turn around").
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<p>I'm no economist nor realtor, but that must be in your neck of the woods because it certainly doesn't apply in the city where I live!</p>
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<p>Correct. I was writing about the debt that a student takes on, over and above scholarships, financial aid, and the amount the parents will shoulder.</p>
<p>Our son was fortunate to have good choices. One, the instate Flagship, came with a full tuition scholarship. We could have paid for the room, board and other expenses. The other, after FA was factored in, cost 5-6000 more, and we told him he would be responsible for that if he chose to go there. I felt that 5-6000 a year in college debt would be something an engineer graduating form a "name" schools known for its career services would be able to handle, as he is likely to earn 55,0000 or more right out of school.</p>
<p>That was my math. Which, as I said had no basis but my gut! And I would have been far less comfortable with the arrangement if he had been directed toward a less lucrative career.</p>
<p>Since we evidently have some good number crunchers here, I'm curious to learn their reactions.</p>
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I'm no economist nor realtor, but that must be in your neck of the woods because it certainly doesn't apply in the city where I live!
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<p>Well, I am both a realtor® and a real estate investor, and I know that current value/price by itself does not cause increased appreciation. Given that you live in Ohio, I doubt you see a whole lot of appreciation period.</p>
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<p>Price in and of itself no debate here, but typically the homes that are significantly above the median prices here have the variables of being in developed communities and better school districts. Although appreciation has been stunted across the board here more or less, the wealthier neighborhoods still have appreciation that is more significant and or stable than in the less affluent communities. My point being that typically that wealthier homeowner will have a few more chips to leverage in asssiting the kids to a more expensive school than the family living in a more moderate home.</p>
<p>DT123:
"What we never see around here is a post from somebody saying "I paid full tuition at Some Expensive School, and it probably was a waste of money." What we see are self-validating posts saying "We saved and sacrificed, and it was worth every penny." Why is that?"</p>
<p>Probably because the children of parents who save and sacrifice probably walk into whichever college they end up in (regardless of the name, the cost, or the prestige factor) and are determined to make the most of every opportunity which comes their way.</p>
<p>My neighborhood is filled with people who think that anyone who pays full freight is a chump; that you can get just as good an education at the local branch of State U as you can anywhere else, and that a degree is just a piece of paper. I can't argue with them; their kids are either at our State flagship majoring in Frat Pranks and Partying with a senior thesis written in Daytona Beach while on Spring break, or are attending the local U while driving fancy cars to and from the health club or back and forth to some club every weekend.</p>
<p>They are right; their kids will either succeed or fail in life and it will most likely have little to do with their education, the cost of that education, or the prestige of their college. </p>
<p>Meanwhile, there are kids at the local CC whose parents are recent immigrants and who take on 2 and 3 jobs to be able to support the kids in CC; these kids study hard, take advantage of every opportunity, and are working to transfer to a private college after 2 years. I'd bet those kids see the sacrifices Mom and Dad make and are prepared to prove them right.</p>
<p>My own kids? Never took college for granted; never assumed that they were there to get their ticket punched; are working hard and starting to be successful in their chosen fields while being financially independent from us from day one after college graduation.</p>
<p>So yes, we did the right thing by sacrificing and saving to send them to Brand Name U. If we'd had less we'd have sacrificed and saved to send them to lesser name U but have no doubt they'd have worked just as hard. Kids who grow up hearing that college is a big scam and tuition is a waste of hard earned money that could just as well be spent on a ski vacation or at Atlantis for a week in the winter are going to absorb some of that message by the time they get to wherever they are going.</p>
<p>This entire thread is meaningless if you do not subscribe to the "college education as an investment" mantra. For some of us, a college education is not an investment, but a continuation of the process of raising, molding, influencing, etc who your child will be for the rest of his/her life. We do not care how much money we get in return for educating our children. We only care about the person our child will be when the entire process of rearing him/her (including college) is complete.</p>
<p>I understand what you are trying to show by calculating how long it would take to pay back a $150,000 incurred by attending say Yale over a state university, but you must also point out that very few people actually pay the ticket price to any school. In fact, some Ivy League schools have a great financial aid system that cuts out loans under a certain income bracket or cuts out the cost of tuition all together. </p>
<p>According to data from collegedata.com, here is the average indebtedness of students after graduation in 2006. To find these numbers, log in to collegedata, search for desired school, info will be listed on the overview page and under the money matters tab. </p>
<p>Keep in mind these are averages, so many students will be below, but just as many will be above these values. Also, you, as the student attending, and your parents, as the ones who have to pay back these debts, should consider if the benefits of attending your dream school outweigh the (now lower) cost of attendance. Also, keep in mind these are statistics from only one source, however, I think they are effective in getting the point across that the cost of attending a dream school is actually much lower than what is being implied by this thread. </p>
<p>Here are the top 25 universities (according to US News Rankings) and their respective average indebtedness:</p>
<p>Princeton 4,965
Harvard 9,717
Yale 13,334
Stanford 15,758
U Penn 20,927
Caltech 5,156
MIT 17,956
Duke 23,499
Columbia 16,080
U Chicago not reported
Dartmouth 21,561
WUSTL not reported
Cornell 18,938
Brown 15,940
Northwestern 18,860
Johns Hopkins 16,932
Rice 15,873
Emory 24,272
Vanderbilt 19,429
Notre Dame 26,285
Berkeley 14,751
Carnegie Mellon 26,500
U Virginia 12,726
Georgetown 24,816
UCLA 15,996</p>
<p>In order of lowest average debt to highest:
Under 10,000
Princeton 4,965
Caltech 5,156
Harvard 9,717</p>
<p>10,000-15,000
U Virginia 12,726
Yale 13,334
Berkeley 14,751</p>
<p>15,000-20,000
Rice 15,873
Brown 15,940
Stanford 15,758
UCLA 15,996
Columbia 16,080
Johns Hopkins 16,932
MIT 17,956
Northwestern 18,860
Cornell 18,938
Vanderbilt 19,429</p>
<p>20,000+
U Penn 20,927
Dartmouth 21,561
Duke 23,499
Emory 24,272
Georgetown 24,816
Notre Dame 26,285
Carnegie Mellon 26,500</p>
<p>A few things I find surprising: Princeton and Caltech's significantly lower numbers than any other schools. I never would have guessed these to be the leaders of the pack. Also, Rice boasts of it's lower tuition (about 6-7 grand lower than the average) yet its spot on this list puts it just about average for top universities. </p>
<p>Perhaps these numbers are not entirely accurate (as I have warned beofre) but they must have some truth to them. The difference between 150,000 and 15,000 is astronomical. That either means a very large proportion of students get free rides and the handful of student who pay the full price bring the debt back up or the debt follows a normal model (which I suspect) and should encourage students to reconsider applying and attending brand name universities over their state U (if that is what they truly dream to do, I'm not knocking a state U, it could be the perfect place for a particular student to thrive).</p>
<p>Is anyone willing to calculate the amount of money needed to pay off these kinds of loans in say 10-15 years?</p>
<p>There's definitely many different side topics going on here. For those who think some of us care TOO MUCH about money; no we don't. We're practical. What good is working your fingers to the bone if you can't personally enjoy some of it. </p>
<p>Those who said if money is so important, we shouldn't had kids. Well, that is just plain stupid. "Eventually a dog is going to die; why even have one"? Giving a child everything they want from birth and including their college is a disservice to the children. You need to say no sometimes. You need to set limitations. You need to foster self sufficiency and teach them how to do things for themselves. The who purpose of the "Training" portion of a parent is to someday have that child be able to support and take care of him/her self. Yes, weddings cost money; but you DON'T have to spend $50k on a wedding. You can spend $10K. College costs money; but you don't have to pay $30K a year for it.</p>
<p>Next; the examples given need to be more explicit. To thin that the ACTUAL LOAN TO PRINCETON when the dust settles is going to be about $20K; that's not realistic. The reason is because of 2 reasons. 1st; Most people don't know how to get money for school. We've already seen it here too many times. Most people think that you get money from the college/university. Yes, you can get some, but when you start looking at the HYPS type school, what they give is a lot less. Most people don't know that there's a lot more out there. Here's a good USAtoday article about the issue.</p>
<p>Some here are separating the loan of the student and the debt of the parent. You CAN'T do that. Not unless you believe that the parent OWES THEIR CHILD a college education to HYPS. When you say that a family's CONTRIBUTION is $25K; where do you think they are getting the money? You are correct that MOST banks won't give a college student an unsecured loan for that kind of money. But some do. The fact is; the family contribution is ALSO DEBT. Now I do agree that if the family determines that they can afford "X" amount a year for college. (I DON'T CARE WHAT FAFSA SAYS THE CONTRIBUTION SHOULD BE. THAT IS UP TO WHAT THE PARENTS SAY THEY CAN AFFORD); if the difference to the dream school is proportionately very little; e.g. an additional $3-$5k, then it could very well be worth the little extra. Especially if the kid was going to get to part time job to help out. But generally speaking, the family contribution and the final student loan is ALL DEBT. It can't be separated.</p>
<p>As far as trying to say that kids are being taught that the money for college is better spent on vacations and trips; that too is rationalized garbage. Not one person here has said that education is a waste. The difference is; there are a lot of us who have first hand knowledge and experience and say that a degree from Harvard and the debt accompanied by it, is not proportionately a better education that going to State "U". There are times when Harvard is the best education. There are times when Colorado State University is the best education. That has nothing to do with money and is a totally different topic. There are times that if you want the best education in a certain area, that MIT, Harvard, etc... is the place to go. Sometimes, there are times if you want the BEST EDUCATION in a certain area, that Colorado state or Michigan state is the best college. The cost of the college is secondary. Also, what we call substantial debt is relative and subjective to each student. But when we are talking about substantial debt; either for the parent or the student; we aren't talking about a $20K loan upon graduation. We are looking more at a $100,000+ plus debt upon graduation.</p>
<p>P.S. WE HAVEN"T EVEN GOTTEN INTO TALKING THAT MOST PARENTS DON'T HAVE JUST 1 KID. SO MULTIPLY TO DEBT; IF THE PARENT IS EXPECTED TO PAY FOR IT; BY HOW MANY KIDS.</p>
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<p>I don't understand the basis for this statement. It appears to assume that absolutely no money has been saved for a child's college education and that no lifestyle adjustments are made while tuition bills are coming in. That is not my reality. We didn't save as much as I would have liked, but we did what we could. And we are certainly not making any purchases that are not essential for the duration. All of that was factored into "what we can afford to spend." We are FAR from wealthy, but we, as parents, are not (and I'll say: should not be) taking on personal debt to finance our son's education.</p>
<p>I<em>AM</em>JAM notes," understand what you are trying to show by calculating how long it would take to pay back a $150,000 incurred by attending say Yale over a state university, but you must also point out that very few people actually pay the ticket price to any school"</p>
<p>Also I<em>AM</em>JAM cites averate graduation indebtedness for various top schools.</p>
<p>Response: Frankly, if you are not one of the people geting these grants, it doesn't help. My daughter applied to Syracuse univesity School of Visual Communication. Despite Syracuse noting that over 70% of the kids get some form of aid, we not nothing, nada, Zero! They wouldn't even negotiate based on what we got elsewhere. Carnegie Mellon resulted in the same things: Zero aid. Thus, if you are not one of the 70% who gets aid, I can assure you, it doesn't make you feel warm and furry.</p>
<p>As for average indebtedness, IVYs do give decent aid, especially lately if you are NEED BASED. Many other t op provate schools are not as well endowed and don't benefit their incoming students as much as the ivys. Remember, there are only 7 ivys and maybe another 20 well-endowed private schools out of thousands of private schools.</p>
<p>"I understand what you are trying to show by calculating how long it would take to pay back a $150,000 incurred by attending say Yale over a state university, but you must also point out that very few people actually pay the ticket price to any school."</p>
<p>Just wrong. To use a random example, according to the school website, 40% of the students attending Tufts (a full need school) are getting financial aid. That means 60% are paying full sticker price. The reason for the relatively low indebtedness is that the parents rather than the children are generally paying. And many of those parents are borrowing money to do so.</p>
<p>dt123 asks: <<what we="" never="" see="" around="" here="" is="" a="" post="" from="" somebody="" saying="" "i="" paid="" full="" tuition="" at="" some="" expensive="" school,="" and="" it="" probably="" was="" waste="" of="" money."="" what="" are="" self-validating="" posts="" "we="" saved="" sacrificed,="" worth="" every="" penny."="" why="" that?="">></what></p>
<p>Probably for the same reason that you never see anyone say "I majored in accounting at Crappy State School because my parents said it was practical and cheap and I could get a job right away. I hated sitting in classes with people who couldn't even cut it in my high school classes, I was bored and uninspired, and I feel like I missed out big time on the opportunity to get a real education instead of job training. Now I have a starting accountant job in a cubicle farm and I hate my life."</p>
<p>Many of the posts in this thread equate money spent for private K-12 education with money. The purposes are in fact quite different. At the elementary and secondary level, you are trying to provide your kids with the necessary tools to succeed. At the expensive, highly selective private, you are buying prestige and peers--nothing more and nothing less. </p>
<p>Having done just every conceivable permutation of elementary and secondary education for my children (public, private, even a year of boarding school), I can say that while I don't consider every choice that we made to have been right, I think that the incredibly expensive PG year at boarding school was a good investment because of the particular circumstances in which we found ourselves (although, with hindsight, I think a different boarding school might well have been an even better investment). On the other hand, count me as one who is at least having strong second thoughts about the wisdom of paying full freight to one of the most prestigious LACs in the country. Call me back in 20 years.</p>
<p>I think going to my dream school would be worth it even if the tutition would be expensive.</p>
<p>Students should choose a college because they feel comfortable in it and not just because of the cost.</p>
<p>If the dream school is really a dream school, then a student should try getting financial aid, scholarships, work study, etc.</p>
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Uhhh..that was a pretty clueless post. Since when would an investor care more about the absolute dollar amount rather than the rate of return? Yes, if I invest 1 million dollars, I should earn more in absolute terms than if I invested 100,000. However, if the 100k project produces a higher rate of return, I will take that project first. If there are 10 projects valued at 100k, each with a higher rate of return than the 1 million dollar project, I will take each of the 10 smaller projects prior to the 1 million dollar project.
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<p>Stop the personal attack! If you are discussing homeownership than the person with big house in expensive neighborhood always wins out. It's not similar commercial investment so rate of return analysis is moot. For personal investment, you can only live in one house not 10 houses. I don't know who is clueless here?</p>
<p>I think it is really hard to evaluate.
For instance- we paid our EFC for oldest to attend expensive private school.
We also paid for her to attend expensive private schools K-12.
I don't think we can 2nd guess that decision, because she * did * do that & we don't know what her experience would have been like if she had attended public schools, either for K-12 or for college.</p>
<p>It isn't as easy as after you eat too big of a meal & saying " I shouldn't have eaten that much! "</p>
<p>But we thought about it hard with the information we had at the time & that is what we did. She still received aid for both K-12 & college, but we still paid out more money than if she had gone public school.</p>
<p>However- her sister has attended public school since 3rd grade- her current first choice college is public instate & while I am fairly happy with her high school- not so much with the district & I imagine getting a great education at even a fairly strong public university is going to be more labor intensive than getting a great education at a private liberal arts school.</p>
<p>taxguy, what college is CMU?</p>
<p>A point that is contained in this question is: </p>
<p>A dream school of someone is not necessarily universally known. So universal acknowledgement, or prestige, may not be a benefit of all that dough spent, too. I find it fascinating to see the dumb looks of people when my friend's son says he is going to Swarthmore.</p>
<p>Carnegie Mellon probably?</p>
<p>I had never heard of Swarthmore either, until my daughters elementary teacher mentioned that was where her son had applied.
( we are west coast- I think that makes a difference- plus small schools don't usually have big football teams ;) )</p>
<p>Sorry, CMU= Carnegie Mellon. </p>
<p>Also,when a school stats that 60% of kids got aid, they don't say what kind of aid. For all we know, it could be mostly loans. In addition, that would mean that 40% are paying full price. I have found that school web site that deal with percentages of kids that get aid, are very deceptive. However, that shouldn't surprise you.</p>
<p>People do not go to Swarthmore for prestige. They go for top notch education.</p>
<p>Though Swarthmore and other top LACs are very well known in academic circles, and have outstanding med school/ law school/ grad school placement records.</p>