<and if="" you="" lived="" in="" china,="" as="" grandparents="" would="" be="" living="" with="" the="" children="" and="" taking="" care="" of="" grandchild="" (just="" one,="" most="" likely)="" a="" tiny="" little="" house="" or="" apartment.="">
I truly hope to take care of many, many grandchildren 
I don’t want a huge, empty, cold house, gym membership, and a club with strangers Everyone has his/her own dreams.
BTW, my father is still working (mom passed away). He has a very decent salary. However, all children are paying him, monthly. In the end, his standard of living is higher than mine