<p>I don’t have any helpful remedies but I do have a horror story. D was a competitive gymnast for 11 years at the same time she was doing MT. (Yes, she knows how to manage her time!) She had always snagged dancer roles and featured lines and had just begun to get lead singing roles after about 7 years of doing theatre.</p>
<p>So Peter Pan auditions came around and of course, Peter was the dream of a lifetime for a singer and gymnast. She was PASSIONATE about going for that role! I think she was channeling Cathy Rigby on audition day. Well, this group that ALWAYS double or triple casts lead roles ended up single casting her as Peter because according to the director, it wouldn’t have been fair to ask anyone else to try to compete with her. She was ecstatic! It was SUCH a boost to her self-esteem because up until then she really didn’t know if she was any good.</p>
<p>They did cast an understudy because D’s competition schedule was going to force her to miss several rehearsals and they wanted someone there for that and it was also a developmental opportunity for another girl. They even scheduled an “understudy performance” (invited dress) so that this girl would get a chance to fly and do the whole show for her friends and family.</p>
<p>We showed up for the first “fly rehearsal” on day 1 of Tech week and D had the time of her life flying, doing gymnastics in the air and everything. But as the evening progressed, she started complaining of feeling wretched.</p>
<p>By the next morning she was deathly ill, her voice was COMPLETELY gone and to cut this short, she didn’t recover for 3 weeks. So there she was after 6 months of rehearsal, and she never got to play Peter at all. We still refer to it as “The Great Peter Pan Disaster of 2009.” </p>
<p>BUT by Friday, she was recovered enough that she was at every performance, helping the U/S Peter with knowing where to be when, costume changes and just generally being as helpful as she could be. </p>
<p>I have never been so proud of her in my life and the one thing SHE (and I) learned from that is that you can survive tragedy and still go on with your life. Granted, in the great scheme of things, it wasn’t a TRAGEDY in the truest sense, but for a performer who had dreamed of playing Peter Pan since she was 5, it was a nightmare of monumental proportions. </p>
<p>And for me, I learned just how painful it can be to watch your kid suffer and not be able to do a single thing to help. Something tells me I’ll be reliving that feeling over and over in my lifetime!! But I know that both she and I will survive it!</p>
<p>BTW, what is “Singer’s Saving Grace?”</p>