<p>Hi Jolynne-</p>
<p>I think we keep posting mutually beneficial questions on the latest math thread. </p>
<p>Five years ago, (wow, it's been forever) I started out this process with our oldest, when she was a HS soph. I thought I was so on top of things and then I found out from another (then) busy college site, that I was WAY behind. Seeing your posts brings back memories!</p>
<p>That D ended up skipping the entire 8th grade. She agreed to not skip another grade later, in HS. She wanted 4 years of the social/exracurricular life, but at times she still got bored academically. This even with testing out of another year of required science and submitting a portfolio for English placement and getting placed two additional years ahead (not counting the grade skip) in English. This was something that had never been done before in our district, nor since. Snotty middle school teacher would not give her a recommendation because she thought D had attitude, due to move-up. Said she would have problems. Ha! The English dept head said as long as she didn't have to have an A right out of the gate, she would be fine. They let her take upper level stuff at both local high schools, this teacher became her mentor and set her up with all kinds of English related opportunites as an 'occupational' requirement and she is doing well as an English major in college.</p>
<p>The academic move-up was great for her. Like her MS principal said, she was very social, and she got along great with older classmates. Better, actually. She was sick of the 'gifted' kids that were lazy and complacent and only cared about grades. Many of them actually were doing worse than the 'regular' kids by HS, anyway. She competed well in her ECs too-she was very talented in music, leadership and cheer. The only real problem she had was, at times, especially early on, many girls (mostly) resented her. Sometimes this made life difficult, but she sure learned to handle tough situations! If your son is ready for the challenge academically AND otherwise, then I say go for it! Like others have said, if they have been bored, jumping ahead, they may actually do better. Our policy has always been, don't push...but if the child is pulling then you need to get moving.</p>
<p>At the time oldest D was moving up, our youngest D was placed in a gifted program as a 3rd grader and she started going crazy in math. They didn't know what to do with her. (She is the one I have been asking questions for on the other thread.) Other math folks were very helpful in giving advice as to how to handle her situation. She is now an 8th grade calc kid...even though we have held her back a bit at times. (We didn't want her to I/S or go to the HS during the 1st year of middle school.) Last year she took math at the HS and she will have 1/2 of her day there this year. She has done extra science, music and language activities to keep herself busy. For her, it is just necessary.(AND fun!) Like Marite's son, she does not want to grade skip, because of friends and because, as she puts it, she 'deserves' to be 13! She is in no hurry to grow up, thank goodness! Not that the move-up wasn't the right thing for her sis.</p>
<p>I guess what it boils down to is , what is right for your son and you? We have had to do a lot of obstacle 'removing' with the school district. Just find a way to make it impossible for them to say no by doing your research before-hand. Be sure you know what he will do academically if he is accelerated. D thinks she wants to be a math major. She knows she will have to take total responsibility for math down the road as we won't have a clue past calc! She's not likely to get any help from anyone else around here, either. AP calc is the end of the math road in our area. Our son now seems headed down the same road but may not choose to advance so far in math, depending on desire and future plans. He is in the 5th grade. Now the school knows what to do with him. They ask us to deal with it and if it's something we haven't already had experience with due to a sibling, I come here and ask the experts!</p>
<p>Oh, and by the way, older daughter was 'just' strong in math. We were able to move her up on a trial basis before we committed to a whole year skip in math. One other note- kids taking classes out of their 'grade' really can cause scheduling nightmares! Usually, when the school says (and it often does) that it can't be done, it is up the the parents to find a way that it can. Sometimes transportation will come into play, also.</p>