None of us old-timers believe that being affluent gets you into a college with a single digit admit rate. But you’d have to be stone cold obtuse not to see that being affluent confers TONS of advantages, many of which go unseen.
I’ve posted before about the bike helmet giveaway in my town. Funded by a family whose kid died in a traumatic bike accident. Administered by the local fire departments. No paperwork required. You show up with a kid (or multiple kids), the firefighters measure the kids head, chooses the right helmet, shows the kid how to wear it correctly and how to move the velcro around as you grow. Reminds the kid that if you get into an accident-- the helmet needs to be replaced. And that’s it. You walk out with a free helmet. You can be a multi-millionaire and get a free helmet, you can be impoverished and get a free helmet.
Many observers complain that the folks in line are “too affluent, and where are all the poor people?”
Well, their parents aren’t stalking the town’s Facebook page seeing “What’s going on this weekend for families”. Or there is no grown up available to stand on line if that grown up is at work serving pancakes at the local diner on a Sunday morning. And low income folks don’t have the luxury of a personal pediatrician, in a private practice, who they see every year for a check up who reminds the parent of the importance of bike helmets and gives them a flyer for the free helmet giveaway. Their kids go to the ER if they have a bad ear infection or cough that doesn’t go away, and the attending in the ER doesn’t worry about comprehensive pediatric care and safety- they treat you and send you home and tell you to follow up with your PCP which many low income people don’t have.
And low income folks don’t always have safe driveways to learn to ride a bike. And don’t live in a neighborhood where kids ride on the street, or are a few blocks away from a public park. So their kids don’t ride bikes the way more affluent kids do. Our city planners put the subsidized housing units behind an interstate highway. The parks are on the “other” side of town. Etc.
So while it seems empathetic to ask “why aren’t more low income families standing in line for a free helmet” you ALSO have to ask “How do we make sure that every kid can learn to ride a bike safely”. Just asking about the helmets isn’t sufficient.
I will shut up. But I could give you a dozen examples (kids in homes with no internet access- you see them sitting on the bench across from McDonald’s in the evening doing their homework) of how affluent people don’t even recognize the advantages that their affluence has bought them.