<p>We could really use your help! Our DD has a big decision to make! She got accepted into Smith, Oberlin, and Macalester. </p>
<p>She plays drums in a band, but will not be studying music -- most likely she will choose some sort of liberal arts major (music is just a hobby for her). She has a very high GPA and an ACT of 30.5 (about 2100 approx SAT). She got straight A's for the past 2 years, even in the difficult AP classes (and did extremely well in the AP tests). Based on that, we were hoping that the private colleges would offer her some merit scholarship money.</p>
<p>She visited Smith last summer and fell in love with it, so of course she was thrilled to get accepted. But Smith offered her no merit scholarship money. Nothing! </p>
<p>Oberlin, on the other hand, offered her $52K total for the 4 years. </p>
<p>Macalester offered her nothing, either. </p>
<p>This was extremely disappointing. We are going to try to do a appeal to Smith and Macalester for merit money. </p>
<p>She has not visited Oberlin or Macalester yet, and will go there in a few weeks during Spring Break.</p>
<p>We are trying not to base our decision on money alone. We want her to go to the school where she will get the best liberal arts education and feel the most comfortable. She wants to be around creative intelligent people who are LGBT friendly. In high school she has not "found her niche" as far as people go -- and we want her to find that in college.</p>
<p>Our older daughter is a sophomore at UC Davis, so this will be our second kid in college. We want to help our younger daughter make the right decision, especially if we wind up going to a school that will be "full price private." It is a financial stretch for us without aid money.</p>
<p>I appreciate any advice you can offer about these three colleges. Oberlin sounds like it's full of creative, intelligent quirky people, but would she get as good of a liberal arts education there -- and make as good contacts there -- as Smith or Macalester? </p>