<p>Here are my notes: I did move in from 10 hours away and we did no shopping what so ever. We managed to bring everything in a little honda element, so it can be done. My general notes to make it happen and make move in less stressful. Also, move in is not nearly as bad as everyone makes it out to be. Basically my parents helped me physically move in my boxes and i unpacked over the next two or so days. In all, it should take less than 2 hours. </p>
<p>Bring just enough shampoo, conditioner, laundry soap, etc to get started, like 3 weeks worth. Past that point, the stores won’t be crazy and your D can go on her own. </p>
<p>Bring far less clothing than you think. If she hasn’t worn it in the last 6 months, don’t bring it. If she really figures out she “needs” something, you can always send it pretty easily. Also, no need to bring heavy sweaters/coats yet. I’m assuming you’re coming up for parents weekend, so bring it up then. Or, once again, send it. BUT, do not forget hangers and stuff like that. The dressers were less than adequate for me, but the closets are pretty well sized.</p>
<p>As far as books, each room has 1 bookshelf that would either be all hers, or shared with a roommate. I brought about 15-20 books and they easily fit on 1 1/2 shelves of this bookshelf. Even if she brings quite a few, they should fit on this bookshelf. Don’t buy additional shelving, just limit her to the amount of space on the bookshelf. Anything else she can easily get at Neilson or the public library as S&P said.</p>
<p>Also, i advise against any extra furniture. Bookshelves, chairs, fridges, printers, and TVs are all space-eaters. You have a TV in the living room and hulu on your computer. You have a bookshelf and Smith gives you a desk chair and friends normally sit on your bed. Kitchenettes or kitchens have plenty of fridge space, someone in your house will have a printer or you can go to Neilson and pay 5 cents a page (cheaper than ink). </p>
<p>If possible, try to coordinate with the roommate different times to move in. It was crowded having 2 sets of parents and two kids at the same time. The only downside to this is that you might want to rearrange the room and that takes both of you agreeing. So maybe meet up, say hello, move around the room and pick beds/closets/dressers, then have one family do any last minute shopping or go to lunch while the other moves in, then swap. </p>
<p>Don’t feel like you need to unpack everything for them. Ask your D, she may want to leave a few boxes for her to figure out later. THat’s what I did and it was far less stressful.</p>
<p>It might be too late for this one, but don’t buy everything that you’re “supposed” to. Like a white board, calendar, desk lamp, floor lamp, rug, curtains, etc. Wait til she needs them and send her money to buy them at school. Our room was pretty well lit, so my desk lamp was kinda redundant, but a floor lamp was necessary for the one side of it. I went without curtains until second semester because the blinds worked fine. I never used my white board or my calendar and gave it to a friend sometime in november. I know it’s tempting to get all of this stuff right away, but waiting is sometimes a better idea</p>