<p>We have totally messed up by being snowplowers. As son is ready to graduate college, he has no idea how to apply for grad schools or a full-time job. He finally had it out with my husband to stop treating him like a 10 year old. He used the phrase, If you give a man a fish, you feed him for a day; if you teach a man to fish, you feed him for life. Stop giving me fish!</p>
<p>Never been more proud of him than I was when those words came out his mouth.</p>