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<p>S1 taught me to not snowplow. He had a college interview in the fall of his hs senior year that was in a city over 2 hours from our home. We drove like crazy to get there on time and when we arrived there was absolutely no parking. He was frantically trying to change into his sport coat and slacks as we approached the building. I told him I would find a spot and meet him in the lobby to help him navigate the large office building. He looked at me and laughed as he said, " if I can’t find this guys office, I have no business going to college." Lesson learned. I never did another thing for him again (except write checks).</p>
<p>OTOH, S3 is very different. I am never sure when to help out versus when to stand back.</p>