I am really hoping that someone here has experience with this. I have been doing my own taxes for years and do not have a CPA to advise me. That said, I have been trying for the past year or two to find a CPA for tax advice and either no one calls me back or I get people who only do returns and don’t give advice or I get people who will do my taxes and give me advice for some ridiculous 5-figure yearly fee. I’m still looking for someone local but in the meantime, I thought I might post here because I’m sure I’m not the first parent to encounter this. I apologize in advance for the length of this post, but it is a bit of a complicated situation. I’m basically just trying to figure out if I have to declare her as a dependent or not, if she is allowed to file as an independent and get the education credits, and if she is subject to kiddie tax.
My daughter is 22. She graduated undergrad in May and just started a fully funded PhD program in a different state on the other side of the country. As part of the requirements for the graduate program, she has to get residency in that state (California) – it’s a public school and the program is covering her tuition so I guess they don’t want to pay more than they have to. They gave step by step advice for getting residency and so far my daughter has changed her permanent address and gotten a DL in that state. She will be registering to vote and setting up a bank account there within the next few weeks and will be filing state taxes there from now on. According to the school, 366 days after doing these things, they will consider her an in-state resident. Seems pretty cut and dry so far.
First issue: I am not sure whether she should be considered a dependent on my tax return this year. I would prefer not to declare her and let her be independent – we make too much to be eligible for any of the education credits but I think on her own she would be. But according to what I can figure out from reading IRS publications, in order to not be a dependent, she has to be providing 1/2 of her own support and cannot have lived with me for more than half the year (and they count being away at school as living with me.) And while I know I don’t have to declare her as a dependent, apparently if I CAN declare her, even if I don’t, that may negate her ability to receive the education credits like the AOC etc? I’m not sure because like I said, we’ve never qualified for those so I don’t know how they work. I’m not even sure she’d be eligible since we paid her tuition in undergrad with 529 funds and the grad program is paying her graduate tuition.
But anyway, the dependency question is where I’m getting really confused. She was in undergrad until May of this year. Her tuition and living expenses while in school were paid via her scholarship (which covered most of her tuition but none of her room and board) and our 529 plan and the disbursement was made out to me. She had very limited part time job that paid her via W2 and another one that paid her as a 1099 contractor, but total earnings are probably less than $1-2K. The IRS is apparently vague about whether 529 plans count as the student’s own support or parental support but since the disbursements were paid to me and I paid the bills, I’m assuming that would be considered parental support.
She is getting paid a nice stipend by the graduate program (about $3700/month before taxes starting in September of this year, so a little less than $15K total for this year), but it is not W2 income – it is apparently going to be listed as a scholarship refund on a 1098-T. So again, while that may count as her own support, it is not technically “earned income.” I also have a lot of money left in her 529 thanks to her undergrad scholarships, so I have been pulling out the full amount the college allows monthly for room and board from the 529 and sending that disbursement directly to her to supplement her income as even though her stipend is generous, she is in a very HCOL city and living on the stipend alone is a stretch. That may count as her own support since the disbursement is in her name - I’m not sure and the info I found on the internet said the IRS has not given any guidance and you could argue for it either way so that is unhelpful. So ultimately, I’m confused about how to know whether she’s providing 1/2 of her own support - a lot of it seems to depend on how the 529 plan disbursements are counted.
I’m also confused about the requirement to “live with me for more than half the year.” She graduated in May and spent the summer traveling around to different friends’ houses, living off her savings and relaxing between undergrad and the start of grad school, so she wasn’t living under my roof and but also didn’t earn any extra income. Then she immediately moved to her grad school housing. So she did not technically live with me for half the year (only til she graduated mid-May while she was away at undergrad) although her DL and permanent address didn’t change until September. So I’m not sure if she meets the residency requirement for me to declare her. If she isn’t considered has having lived with me for half the year then apparently I can’t declare her and she does not have to check the box for “Can someone else declare you as a dependent” but again, I’m not sure exactly how they measure this. Can I even declare someone who has a permanent address 3000 miles away from me? And even if I can or have to declare her this year, I certainly won’t be able to next year unless they are going to consider her as being away from home to attend school, but that seems to contradict that whole point of getting CA residency which the school insisted on. So like I said, I’m confused!
She has also been on our health insurance all year. She got her own plan paid for by the grad program that started September 1, but recent claims still seem to be being paid by our insurance so I’m not sure exactly what is going on there. I’m not sure how health insurance status affects dependency or if it is considered parental support. Insurance is the same price for us whether she’s on our insurance or not (we still have to cover her brother and it is the same price no matter how many kids you have) so I figured I’d leave her on our insurance next year as well if I could but I’m not sure if I would allowed to if she’s not a dependent and not living in our household and she does have her own policy in CA paid for by the school. We’re going to hit open enrollment for our employer plan soon so I need to figure this out ASAP and I guess she’d come off our insurance in January if we don’t keep her on for next year.
Finally, as an extra complication, apparently because she’s only 22, she is apparently subject to kiddie tax, meaning all of her unearned income will be taxed at our rate. This seems to apply whether we declare her as a dependent or not, whether she lives with us or not, etc. Which seems really REALLY unfair because all of her stipend is considered unearned income and thus subject to kiddie tax because of appearing as a scholarship refund on a 1098-T. This means that instead of being taxed at the rate for someone making $48K a year, she will be taxed at our rate - a LOT higher. Even though she has a permanent address and drivers license and a completely independent life in California, 3000 miles away. And this will apply for the 15K she makes this year and for the full amount she earns next year – all the way until she turns 24 in 2025. I really find this hard to believe, but everything I’ve researched says its true. Our tax bracket is 35% I think, so this is taking over a third of her stipend right off the top - seems very unfair and certainly means she wouldn’t be able to survive out there without the extra 529 money. And she’s not allowed to work a W2 job or make any other income outside of the stipend - that is part of the condition of the funded program.
So if you’ve made it this far, does anyone have any thoughts on how declaring or not declaring her as a dependent (for both this year and next year) could impact her ability to be on our health insurance and her ability to claim education credits like the AOC. And how the 529 plan withdrawals factor in? (I assume I can still take money out of the 529 even if she’s not a dependent.) And is there any way (other than her getting married which is the suggestion I found on the internet!!!) to avoid the kiddie tax on her stipend? Does anyone else have kids attending grad school with a stipend like this that could offer any guidance? Thanks so much for taking the time to read this!