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<p>I agree with both counts. I only provided the Wash U list because I had it and (I think) it does provide a good look at what caliber a top school is looking for (then one has to be a top student at UG too). The other two told us they had a list and didn’t interview applicants from students not on that list (or similar words - that’s exact for one of the two). I assume the lists will be similar accounting for location differences or alumni differences, etc. When looking at potential undergrad schools we always asked where recent students had been accepted into med school to see if they met my criteria of not burning bridges. I have no idea what he’s going to do/choose for his future, but I want his options to be open - and a decent education of course.</p>
<p>Just in case anyone cares… we do/did let our kids choose whether to homeschool or not for high school (they were in school for elementary). It took this guy less than 5 seconds to say, “absolutely not!” He’s still on the high school Chess Team (Top Board for the past two years - once his brother graduated and went to college). He still has quite a bit of peer interaction and has had college level community college classes for the past two years (not pre-reqs). We let him out of his room once in a while. </p>
<p>I’ve often said that in my next life we’ll check school districts out far more carefully when we choose where to live. I naively thought they were all more or less the same when we moved here. My youngest, currently a sophomore in our local school can even see the difference. Visiting colleges has been great for motivating him and showing him there are “other” worlds of schooling out there. He’s not the least bit interested in medicine - well - I guess it’s sort of related. He plans to major in Botany with specialization in Ethnobotany, but he wants the “plant” side not the medicine side as foremost. </p>
<p>I’m not relying on our guidance department for that either.</p>