<p>She's quite mad/frustrated at me because they updated class ranks.</p>
<p>She was 1, now she's 2. Somehow she found out I was 1 and now she is complaining about how stupid competition and class rank are. I don't think it's my fault... I have not done shady tricks, and I have never mentioned the whole class rank thing. </p>
<p>What should I do? Common sense tells me to talk to her to find out why she's treating me completely different now. </p>
<p>But seriously, for the past 3 years, the girl was completely content with the system, never complained, even talked about how she doesn't care about the whole class rank system. Now she complains. I honestly find her fake.</p>
<p>I should just tell her to get over it, it's not the end of the world, but that might make her cry or something. Both ways, I am in a sticky situation...</p>
<p>She’s really clever. I won’t be surprised if she manages to find some way to change the system or get back at me. </p>
<p>Everyone thinks she’s this nice, calm, controlled person. All the teachers love her. But she’s really a jerk. Funny thing is no one except for me thinks this, because they don’t see the real side of her. She hides it too well…</p>
<p>But ya fairy, thanks for the advice. So I should not even bother confronting her?</p>
<p>trust me, you’re not the only one out there that have to deal with people like that.
seriously, if you’re not friends with her, don’t bother, manipulative control-junkies like that are not worth wasting your time. if she’s going to be immature like that, you’re probably better off without having to talk to her anyways.
hope that helped!</p>
<p>Don’t go out of your way to act like a dick to her, but you shouldn’t go out of your way to “fix” this relationship.</p>
<p>By the looks of it, she doesn’t want to patch up this ‘relationship’ anyways. She sees you as her competitor, which totally warps her view towards you. This change in attitude will wear away in time, but as long as she has this mentality, confronting her won’t change anything. Just ignore and keep on owning her :]</p>
<p>I can honestly say I know how you feel, but I am actually on the “other” side of the equation. I was #1 since my freshmen year. I acted like rank didn’t matter because I didn’t want to seem all “prissy” and like I knew it all. I just did what I had to and do well in my classes. I gave help when people asked me and that was it. The last semester of my junior yr…I don’t know what happened. I dropped from #1 to #3!!! I was UPSET!!! I was in my GC office all the time stating that the girl who is #1 isn’t taking any advance classes and that our classes aren’t weighted! Senior Year now I am still trying to get back on top, I am #2 right now. I did a self evaluation and said that the girl who is #1 is working as hard as I am, so if I want that Val spot I need to continue working hard. Sorry for the story but my advice is to do what you have to do to stay #1.</p>
<p>Just continue to work hard… and if you deserve the #1 spot… then don’t sweat it. But, if you are a student that takes easy classes or doesn’t take the hardest courses possible, it could be quite frustrating for the girl who is now #2!</p>
<p>go out of your way to be a dick to her if she’s being a ***** to you right now. let her know who’s boss. seriously, don’t be a pushover. you’ve worked hard for #1, you deserve. she needs to shut the hell up</p>
<p>be valedictorian, so that u have a chance to say, “I’m better than you. I’m better than you. Yes, I’m so much better than you” as you point to each student during your graduation speech.</p>