<p>So, basically, in short, I suck with girls. I mean, I really do. I actually fear that I might never get a date. But, today, something amazing happened. I was in a class today, where we do nothing (READ: NOTHING). So, I initiated a conversation about something about tech or whatever, and then she actually carried it forward, and kept talking to me. Like if usually I talk to someone, I don't carry the conversation off the topic further. And it usually ends with me doing something else, so our conversations don't go anywhere. </p>
<p>Today, I was able to talk to this girl (she's pretty cute), about a ton of stuff. Now, they were all really random, and like we talked about a different topic every 3-4 minutes, and it was really jumbled. Is that how conversations are supposed to be? It seems to be kinda bad. Like, we talk, but it's all WAYYY random. </p>
<p>I'm not looking for a gf right now, but I do want her to like me (do you get what I mean?). So, I want to talk to her more, about more interesting stuff, and I want to know how to bring up those topics and what not....</p>
<p>I dunno how much longer I talk talk about random crap for long. She's not the really talkative type, but she does seem like she wants to talk to me. I don't want to ruin the conversation thing...I'm thinking of a few other things, like calling her by name, and asking how she's doing. But yeah. Got any suggestions? Thanks.</p>
<p>just don't worry, play it cool. ask her if she wants to go out to lunch or somewhere after school to hang out. when she says yes, just keep hanging out with her and talk about whatever. she wants to talk to you and probably doesn't care what you say so long as it's not strange or awkward or threatening. if something is meant to happen it will. if not, female friends are really nice to have. i feel a lot more comfortable talking to girls about some stuff than guys, and they're more into just hanging out and talking than guys.</p>
<p>calling her by name?
what do you call her now</p>
<p>'hey, *****, come over here and talk to me' lol</p>
<p>um i think you should just act normal around her, just treat her like an ordinary friend. because if you act too interested then she'll be scared. but since she was talking to you for so long, then she must think you are pretty interesting already so i wouldn't worry about conversation topics.</p>
<p>Hah you sound kinda like my boyfriend. We sat next to each other in a class last year and just kinda started talking, and I don't think a girl ever talked to him before (which is weird cuz he's cute, but shy). I wasn't really looking for a boyfriend. Anyway, normal conversations are totally random.</p>
<p>Don't think too much into it, that makes everythng harder. Just relax and talk to her normally, and you'll be fine. (See what happens when you randomly talk about "tech"?)</p>
<p>Son this is what boys and girls do once they come of age. Just don't think too hard and let things happen on their own. Don't worry, you've got hundreds of thousands of years of evolution to back you up. Courtship is an animalistic ritual, it's in your DNA.</p>