<p>What do you do if you see a really good looking guy or girl? Do you just kind of tell yourself that he/she is cute, then ignore it? Do you try to work up the guts to go talk to the person?</p>
<p>talk to them like their another human being like me.... try to not let apearances distract me too much...</p>
<p>probably ignore it...
yeah. sad.</p>
<p>Talk to them. Generally when I've had girlfriends over the years it means that at somepoint I was attracted to them and talked to them. What's the worse they're going to do?</p>
<p>Usually the first one unless that person is in my class or my dorm or something that leads to my seeing them more than once. Then I would talk to her.</p>
<p>if i make eye contact with said person, i smile and/or say hi. </p>
<p>but that's the extent to my actions, unless they say something else</p>
<p>I'm with gemstar66 and vicissitudes. Chances are, I'd try to make eye contact, smile and appear friendly, and if they talk to me then I'll talk to them. But if they were in my class or sat near me, I'd talk to them. It all depends.</p>
<p>Depends how much better looking they are than me! If I feel they're in my range then I'll make friends with them.</p>
<p>yeah proximity is a big thing, i wouldn't walk acorss the quad to go talk to a hot girl, but if she were in my class, defintely.</p>
<p>I understand where all of you are coming from, and usually im with you. But every once in a while you gotta step out of your comfort zone, i mean you see that cute girl/guy and instead of thinking about how you dont have a chance i find myself thinking of the possibilities. try to talk to them</p>
<p>you could've just sent me a facebook message, you didn't have to tell the whole world about it.</p>
<p>/obligatory</p>
<p>I'm still in high school, but there are a ton of kids at my school who i dont know at all, so i will usually just go up and talk... though i can be shy at times.</p>
<p>As for jusr random people on the street... usually wouldn't go up and talk.... but maybe once or twice.</p>
<p>TALK TO THEM FOR CHRISSAKE!!!</p>
<p>or else how are you ever going to get the guy/girl you want?</p>
<p>Talk to them with the intentions of making rapport/having fun/ connecting with them.</p>
<p>Just don't come off as desperate, needy, or that you have low confidence, and you'll be perfectly fine. If you think a girl/guy is a perfect 10, odds are some other person won't think they're a perfect ten, maybe a 7 ,8, or 9 and you're attraction will probably make them like you more. SO JUST TALK TO THEM AND IF YOU GET SHOT DOWN ITS NOT THE END OF THE WORLD, YOU'RE STILL YOU AND A PRETTY COOL PERSON.</p>
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I understand where all of you are coming from, and usually im with you. But every once in a while you gotta step out of your comfort zone, i mean you see that cute girl/guy and instead of thinking about how you dont have a chance i find myself thinking of the possibilities. try to talk to them
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<p>I actually agree with this. If you really have an interest in a girl, go and talk to her. Make more effort than you normally would with other people (don't come on too strong though). Maybe ask for a number or to hang out. That's worked pretty well for me.</p>
<p>Also agree completely with Peter Parker. I thought this one girl was pretty cute and a friend gave her a 5.5. I said "you're blind." But you know, no need to get intimidated. They are just like everyone else.</p>
<p>Just focus on being successful and people will be naturally drawn to you without having to use perks. Getting a girl/guy isn't my biggest worry, but an added bonus.</p>
<p>kill 'em</p>
<p>...</p>
<p>^hahahaha yes</p>
<p>It depends, just because I find a girl attractive doesn't mean I'd waste my time talking to her. I've gotten sick of dumb girls.</p>
<p>Too bad you can't tell which girls are psychotic just by looking at 'em. Well, most of the time... So you got to chat up the ones you're physically attracted to in order to see if they meet criteria 2: personality. And you better have enough self-respect to have a personality criteria; don't let a hot girl/ guy treat you like a piece of garbage or be <em>boring</em> and you stick around for their other <em>assets.</em> Have some self-respect and standards, man. This is YOUR life, ladies and gents, don't settle for anything less than you deserve.</p>
<p>Girls are very rarely actually psychotic...don't be so cynical. ;)</p>