<p>Ignore it. Up until today I never could like a person well enough without actually knowing him a while before. Just appearances never do for me.</p>
<p>Have you ever passed a guy on the campus and mutter "****c, he's gorgeous" and then probably think u'll never see him again.. damn it. i hate it when that happens.</p>
<p>Do something or you'll never know. if you don't do anything u have a 0% chance, but if you do it is not 0% :)</p>
<p>i'm not sure but i think gentle/friendly teasing is the best way to pick some1 up- compliments can be kind of uncorftable if you've just me some1. Laughter/joking is easy and spawns other conversation whereas w/ a compliment there's not really much else to go on even if u like the person</p>
<p>Treat them like dirt. Works wonders.</p>
<p>punch her in the face whenever u get the chance...shows what a tough man u are</p>
<p>girls like strong men who are assertive</p>
<p>Imagine this:
You walk into the room and you see this girl you like. You look her straight in the eye without looking away, approach her with a cocky swagger, invade her personal space without apology, and look her right in the eyes with a smile just for her. You pause, lean back, look her body up and down once playfully, and say "Hi."</p>
<p>What do you think her reaction is going to be?</p>
<p>Maybe uncomfortable?</p>
<p>The reason I have yet to date anyone in college is because of personality type conflicts. By now if you've read my posts you know that I am someone who doesn't party, works too much, has unique tastes in some things (trance music, pop art, Volvo car, etc.) but not in others (Abercrombie, sports, etc), doesn't live on campus, and goes to church every Sunday. I'm also one of these people who acts like a 30 year old in the way I talk and go about my business.</p>
<p>The girls I usually find attractive for some reason seem to be either younger than me (typically by 2 or 3 years) or Europeans. I have no idea why.</p>
<p>I guess on the positive side the classes of 2007 and 2008 are coming to college soon plus there's sure to be a crop of exchange students coming.</p>
<p>I've always wanted to talk to a girl for 3 years in high school and I never had the guts. If I was shot down, it would be WAY too awkward to see them every single day, because I had classes with her.</p>
<p>it's all in your head Spartan. just go up and talk to her. it's not that big of a deal. if you make it a big deal, then it's going to be awkward.</p>
<p>Yeah...I'm very self-conscious and shy...not necessarily anti-social.</p>
<p>I think part of the key is just that, "not making a big deal out of things." A part of me has always thought (or at least acted) like there was shame in showing interest in someone. As of late I have realized there isn't really. It's normal. It's human. People have shown interest in you (most likely) after all. Go for it! More often than not, you'll at least come out of it with a friend if not more.</p>
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i think this is very true. trying hard not to sound too full of myself, i'd say that im a pretty interesting person and that people are naturally drawn to me. if there's a girl i'd like to make friends with, it come easily. :)</p>
<p>I'd go chitchat with them. We could be a great fit--how will I know if I don't even try? Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't. To be honest, I'm approached more often that I do the approaching. ;) But I'm always happy to talk to someone who wants to chat with me, I never just turn anyone away or act totally cold, even if I'm totally not feeling them I'll at least be polite. And if someone is kind, listens to me, is funny, is sociable, and seems genuine, odds are I'd walk away with a very positive impression and be more than happy to see them again.</p>
<p>it's better to approach and do something than watching another friend of urs getting the girl/boy next week. :D
but i'm shy</p>
<p>French girls are very different than Americans. </p>
<p>Americans are more relax and opened than French girls.</p>
<p>If i see a girl in America, i'll just go to her, say hi and ask her how she's doing, then ask her for her number because the worse that can happen is that she says "no i'm sorry" or some **** like that but mostly, they give it to you.</p>
<p>In France, if you come up to a girl that you don't know outside or some public place, then she'll think you're some sort of a freak or something and in the worst case cal her friends to beat you up, that's how they are.</p>
<p>However, if the girl tell's me to **** off, i guess i'd just go to her and punch her in the tits as hard as i can. I heard girls are really into punching.</p>
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However, if the girl tell's me to **** off, i guess i'd just go to her and punch her in the tits as hard as i can. I heard girls are really into punching
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<p>And that my friend, will get you immediately arrested for harassment. Think clearly before doing stupid things.</p>
<p>Dude, chill out, take it as a joke</p>