Hey all! I was recently admitted to Wake RD, and I originally really wanted to go there, but now I’m not so sure. It seems like Greek life is huge on campus, but I don’t really plan on rushing a sorority. I also don’t really like parties all that much, but it seems to be one of the only ways to have fun because the campus is a little secluded. I’ve seen a bunch of discussions about how guys who aren’t in frats can still enjoy Wake and find plenty of friends, but the percentage for girls in sororities is much higher. I’m just worried that the other girls will be really busy with their sororities, and it’ll be hard to socialize among the group that isn’t in one.
I am deciding between Wake and a school with apparently a very cold, competitive and almost antisocial student body. I want to be around fun, positive and kind people, but I’m worried that if I’m not in a sorority at Wake, it’ll be too hard to socialize.
Although you think sorority life isn’t for you I would suggest keeping an open mind. You can always attend rush and see what it’s all about. You never know. You just might meet a group of girls you really enjoy.
I think college is all about taking it all in rather than going with preconceived ideas of what you will and won’t like. You never know - Greek at WF might be totally different that what you expect.
Good luck! I would go to Wake, bloom where I’m planted and enjoy all there is to experience!
@hsstudent23 All I can tell you is S is not in a frat. He has many girl friends (platonic) that are not in sororities and many that are. They all seem to enjoy their social life just fine. Getting involved in activities is key. Most people S knows are very involved in at least one.
Also, greek rush isn’t held until the spring and the freshmen experience is a big thing. So you will meet tons of kids in your dorm and south campus right away. All freshmen live within the seven dorms on south campus. Lot of bonding going on both going to parties and just hanging out. Very likely you’ll have a close group before rush and you’ll maintain those relationships regardless.