<p>First of all, cory, thanks for that cue.</p>
<p>Secondly, while I usually dislike contradicting guidance counselors, I don't always think they are on target. My guidance counselor steered me away from schools I think I should have considered more carefully (namely, Brown and Wesleyan) and it was only when I realized that he's a socially conservative Christian (I am a very socially liberal, spiritual, non-religious person) that I thought that perhaps his personal views were interfering with his advice. </p>
<p>Guidance counselors can be great, but they're just another voice in the throng, and not always a reliable one at that. To simplify their job, they're going to try to tell you that Chicago is for "nerds," Williams for "jocks," Dartmouth for "frat boys," and Harvard for "snobs." However, I have a handful of friends at each of those schools who would be more than eager to disprove those respective stereotypes.</p>
<p>Anyway, I believe the question has more or less been answered, but I would just add that I was more or less in the OP's situation. I love doing work, I don't love doing it all the time, and I ideally wanted to go to something like 1-2 parties a month before I came here. Now that I'm here, I go to maybe 3-6 parties a month, and I could go to more.</p>
<p>The house system is terrific at introducing you to people in a family-like setup, so if you want to be very social and host a lot of parties, you will probably gravitate towards the people in your house who also like to be very social and host a lot of parties. If you want to take advantage of the Greek scene, there's that, too. Also, because a lot of students have off-campus apartments, you might find yourself invited to a lot of relatively large apartment parties.</p>
<p>At the same time, there's a healthy segment of people who aren't partying or drinking.</p>