Social scenes? (F&M v. Union)

<p>So, I'm a senior (male) applying to schools, and I already applied early decision 1 to Elon. I don't mean to sound arrogant, but the odds I get in there are pretty good except for the fact that there is a LOT of competition from my high school (4 or 5 other males applying ED there). Enough with the background, I've visited both F&M and Union, liked both a LOT and for a lot of the same reasons. They're relatively similar I think from an outside perspective. </p>

<p>Anyways, I'm in quite the dilemma given that I don't get into Elon (for all I know I might, I just want to be prepared with a backup plan). My dad went to F&M, loved it, and is kind of edging me to ED2 there. Financially, both schools are very expensive BUT I'm not applying for aid nor do I need it (honestly, not trying to sound arrogant again). However, I'm torn between the two. </p>

<p>With F&M, from my high school I'm probably not going to get in if I only apply regular decision. There's a small chance given the legacy and any extra letters of recommendation, but in reality my school stats suggest I won't get into F&M UNLESS I apply early decision (2). With Union, I have a solid shot at getting in if I apply regular. It's no sure thing obviously, but I'd consider it a target with my stats and given the stats of previous acceptances from my high school. If I ED2 to Union, I think I have a pretty good shot at acceptance.</p>

<p>With ALL that being said, I'm wondering if anyone has any inside advice they can give me that's preferably not biased. From what I've heard, both are dominated by Greek life and that's where the social life exists. I don't mind that in the slightest, I want to pledge a fraternity wherever I attend. I like to think I'm personable and make friends easily and quickly. I'm academically driven and know what I want to study (economics and political science, or business at F&M). All things considered, I want the school that will allow me to party, enjoy myself, but buckle down and succeed academically while progressing to the point where I'll be able to have a job or spot in graduate school upon graduation. Any insight is greatly appreciated.</p>