socially-inept boys

<p>Ok i have liked this really smart guy since like freshmen year, and i still really like him and i'd like to get to know more of him. We talk a lot IN CLASS, but the thing is, is that he won't acknowledge me outside of school. I don' know if that's a guy thing to do or whatever... but basically, he won't acknowledge anyone outside of school. He's not in a social group or anything.. i really want to get to know him more, but the thing is, is that it's so hard to get to know him outside of school. any tips? any guys here who are socially retarded but would like to get to know a girl more but doesn't know how?</p>

<p>Hi. Study group him and go from there. Though he does sound anti-social.</p>

<p>I think he probably like u back ans maybe he's just shy. I think you should ask him 2 go 2 the movies with you and your friends one time to see how it goes.</p>

<p>When you see him, say "Hi (Name)!" [waves] or when you see him walking to class walk with him and talk. =] That's all.</p>

<p>just because he doesn't acknowledge you outside of school doesn't mean he is socially inept.</p>

<p>no i'm socially inept and that's pretty much what i do. :-P</p>

<p>he's probably just nervous. If you like him, ask him out!</p>

<p>start having a sexual relationship... that will wake him up</p>

<p>^^ So true.</p>

<p>Do you know anything about this guy?</p>

<p>Is he interested in something? What is his hobby?</p>

<p>If you can initiate a conversation about something he likes, then he will open up to you easily.</p>

<p>Then you can go on from there.</p>

<p>What does he do for ECs...what clubs....that is something you can check out, casually</p>

<p>Does he have a myspace, or facebook, lame I know, but some people are more comfortable</p>

<p>you share a class, call him and ask about homework</p>

<p>he obviouslly isn't going to make any moves, so it tis up to you</p>

<p>paul had a good idea. Just get seductive, it might work. :D</p>

<p>What does "not acknowledge you" out of school mean?</p>

<p>There is something called the cold shoulder. It is used to freeze and dessicate someone else's love. He could be putting this on you, so I have no idea why you want to continue prodding someone who seems to want no part of it.</p>

<p>Facebook is the answer to life, the universe, and everything.</p>

<p>Lol, don't invite him to a grouping event if he's socially inept, 'cause then he'll just feel even more awkward.</p>

<p>Just keep talking to him, and then he'll probably start opening up more. Good luck!</p>

<p>yes, i should be more seductive. my friend was all like, grab the lowest cut shirt you can find and keep talking to him! (of course, she was being sarcastic... I hope)</p>

<p>he's a nerd (but a very cute nerd) in every sense of the word. doesn't really do much but study, which I find attractive for some reason. all my friends are like, "why do you find him attractive?" but i guess it's just me and my weird tastes</p>

<p>and when i mean socially inept, i mean he doesn't acknowledge me if he sees me OUTSIDE OF CLASS, and if i take the initiative and say hi, he's all flustered and shy and all that crap. but i mean during our "partner activities" or whatever during history, he's totally like talking to me and open and roaming me with questions about random stuff about me, like "what did you do this weekend?", "how is your paper coming?" blah blah.</p>

<p>oh and i totally agree. facebook is life. especially for those who don't have one otherwise</p>

<p>Maybe he's not a "greeter".</p>

<p>I am a girl, and last year in my English class I would always talk to these 2 girls. We became pretty good friends but we're from totally different cliques so we NEVER hung out outside of school. Finally, I was tired of it and told them that we should all go do something this weekend blah blah blah...Well a year later and they are 2 of my very best friends (we formed a new clique...sort of). </p>

<p>So basically what I'm trying to say is....if you're too shy to ask him to the movies, just think that it doesn't have to be a date...it could be something totally platonic as you get to know eachother better. Just hurry up, set something for the weekend, and exchange numbers...easy peasy.</p>

<p>I'm socially inept, and I have to say that Facebook really allows me to let go of my inhibitions.</p>