socially-inept boys

<p>Haha, this sounds like me. In school I'm talkative and whatnot in class or with those I'm really close with. Outside of school, NOTHING.</p>

<p>Can't explain it, but I assure you he's not giving you the cold shoulder.</p>

<p>that's pretty funny.</p>

<p>because I'm as "socially inept" as this guy is. I'm school social, and that's it, spending the rest of my time on the computer and in the house. i can't assure you that he's interested. maybe he's not looking for a girlfriend?</p>

<p>anyway, why not a friendly, "hey, we never talk outside of school. want to hang out sometime?"</p>

<p>Guys, I am a shy person and the girl I like is shy too. She doesn't have a facebook, nor myspace. What do I do??</p>

<p>study, work hard, become something, and then 10 years from now it wont matter if you're socially inept because girls will be all over you.</p>

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study, work hard, become something, and then 10 years from now it wont matter if you're socially inept because girls will be all over you.

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Prostitution rocks?
I wouldn't want girl to be all over me because I'm rich and popular.</p>

<p>"yes, i should be more seductive. my friend was all like, grab the lowest cut shirt you can find and keep talking to him! (of course, she was being sarcastic... I hope)"</p>

<p>Actually, that would work....if you're hot that is. If a hot girl tried to get my attention like that, I would definitely give her all the attention she needed ;).</p>

<p>man, that's sad. I sincerely hope you are joking, Predator</p>

<p>maybe he just has no need for human contact...some people are hermits.</p>

<p>Naidu90, obviously I'm joking, but don't tell me a girl wearing low cut wouldn't get your attention....unless you're gay.</p>

<p>first of all, I am a girl (did you think I was a guy? :))
second, I doubt a girl with a low cut will get my attention, I like guys with good eyes</p>

<p>just tell him everything you've told us...makeout with him the next chance u get</p>

<p>ha...easier said than done my friend..</p>

<p>that's funny your name is "predator"... creeps me out</p>

<p>a recluse? Shy? Not interested in you? None of these questions will be answered until you confront him about it.</p>

<p>wait. a low-cut shirt doesn't get attention?</p>

<p>could've fooled me.</p>

<p>does get attention, but not a good one</p>

<p>What's wrong with friendship? Not everyone is looking for a "hook up"</p>

<p>Boy/girl friendships eventually become hookups or relationships. The truth is, and I think most people of this site would agree with me, an individual's friends usually possess the same qualities that attracts him/her to a member of the opposite sex.</p>

<p>'an individual's friends usually possess the same qualities that attracts him/her to a member of the opposite sex.'</p>

<p>I agree with you there, but not all friendships turn into something more. I have guy friends with whom I could never imagine having a relationship!</p>

<p>Modify that - the people that an individual chooses to befriend without having any common acquaintances usually possess the same qualities that attracts him/her to a member of the opposite sex...or something like that. There are a LOT of guys whom I've met through other friends (friends-of-friends, siblings, the gamut) that I would never date if I met in a different context. However, a lot of the guys I've gone out and made friends with were, at one point, attractive.</p>

<p>And on the subject of social ineptitude and boys, my boyfriend has yet to get to first base with me, for lack of trying, fear, or shyness. It's been almost five months.</p>