<p>I would disagree that Evergreen would be a match, I think those on the spectrum are more comfortable with some external structure and Evergreen doesn't offer that , although it has some very interesting programs and engaging faculty.
Reed has the structure and my D did choose Reed over Evergreen, but it is also very demanding and while they do have Aspie students on campus, they have to be pro active about getting support.</p>
<p>Though not diagnosed with any disorder, my daughter shares many of the traits you described in your daughter. Women's colleges appealed to her, and though the better ones were farther away from our home, after visiting they did seem to suit someone like her. She is still a HS senior, so I cannot speak first-hand about any of them. My impression is that Smith or Mt. Holyoke would be more supportive than Wellesley, but that is just a gut reaction. Many students with NVLD also struggle a bit with math/science, and Wellesley has extremely rigorous entrance standards in all areas including those. </p>
<p>Both Smith and Mt. Holyoke are part of the 5 College Consortium so she could also take classes at Hampshire, Amherst and UMass (Amherst).</p>