<p>Some mod deleted my topic rather than changed my title, but whatever.</p>
<p>Some drunk dude came up to our floor and asked people if they wanted to fight. My floormates and I politely declined because we're pansies. But hey, what can we do? The drunk guy is clearly stronger than us. He fought with this other guy (from what i've been told, they are friends). He's probably just a pansy trying to act tough. If he's so tough, why does he only challenge people weaker than him? What an *******.</p>
<p>Thats the problem with todays teenagers and young males, your dam pussy's. I'm only 21 but as a child I was in a fight almost every week. I love to fight.</p>
<p>you live to much of a safe life, and that scared me.</p>
<p>I guess thats the difference between protected suburban life and Urban life.</p>
<p>Who says, there are fights in my dorms all the time, Nobody gets kicked out, you only get kicked out if you go and cry to somebody. If you get beat up and go tell then yeah you might. But only a pussy would go tell, that just shows how weak you are.</p>
<p>If the jerks come back, walk away....violence for violence sake is the most immature, childish, lamest, and truely stupidest thing.</p>
<p>and Drunken jerks, well, they could kill somebody...</p>
<p>And you aren't weak if you report random violence, you are a man if you do...only fake men aren't tough enough to stand up and say no and do what some body else asks them to do...if you are so weak as to listen and do whatever someone says, that makes you a man?</p>
<p>never fight. it's not worth it. don't let this "man" crap get to your head. if you're on the street and thugs come up to you, first thing you do is run as fast as you can, not "be a man" and fight them.</p>
<p>urban life vs suburban life? haha, you make it sound like all that happens in the city is people fighting each other on the street (which isn't true. i'm from the city)</p>
<p>Nah, if he's drunk dont take the bait, in the end you'd look stupid because you are the one who is thinking rationally while hes just really drunk. But if he was sober and asked you, then pop that man once in the nose (trust me it works) he wont be messin with you</p>
<p>difference between a real fight and a friendly fight - i spar/fight with my friends allt he time, i'm sure he wasn't trying to stir something with you.</p>
<p>In my honest opinion, you have no reason to be scared. Try to ignore him, and if he actively tries to get aggressive, the only one who will really be hurt is him. If he is an idiot to try something, you have plenty of resources to use to try to get him kicked out.</p>
<p>well to be honest, i dont know what the big deal is. he asked to fight, OP declined and the other guy didn't try to aggravate anything so that was that.</p>
<p>typical college students. guys, fighting doesn't make you seem more tough or manly. it just shows the world how violent and savage you really are. don't fight, just ignore the jerks if they are starting trouble or report them to your RA and have the satisfaction of seeing them get punished (or even kicked out).</p>
<p>Call security, not your RA. You should have campus security in your phone as a contact at all times--even if you commute, you never know what could happen.</p>
<p>Vinny is not a man and doesn't know what a man is. He probably has some desk job where he spends most of his waking hours being sedentary and tapping on his keyboard. Yeah, real man.</p>
<p>Getting into a fight is VERY stupid. Why? Because the guy might have a crew of 4-5 other guys just waiting to pounce on you and beat the living hell outta you. Or later the guy might take a swing at you from behind. Perhaps with a baseball bat. You can be twice the guy's size and you'll still wind up dead.</p>
<p>A real man doesn't get into a physical or even a verbal insult war with some random moron. Why? The fool isn't worth his time.</p>
<p>But anyway, to the OP, I can see where you're coming from, especially when big gorillas like the one you're dealing with come along. Just know that the scumbag probably is very insecure and has a pathetic existence; this is why he constantly needs to validate himself by hitting people. This guy is probably dying to enrage you and escalate a confrontation with you. Whatever you do, don't let him. You're better than this d-bag. Just notify the RA and be ready to call the cops on this mofo if he tries to start something later. It'll be HILAROUS watching his azz being carted away.</p>
<p>Btw, I'm tired of every meathead saying "do this or do that, or else you're a pussy." Hey how bout you let me cut your balls off? What? No? You think it'll hurt? God you're such a pussy!!"</p>
<p>Btw, it sounds like Vinny probably was or is this same d-bag at your college.</p>