<p>So I'm in love with this guy. He's completely perfect...good-looking, nice body, great personality, friendly, a legit genius, really athletic, the list goes on. I tried focusing on his bad parts, but I seriously can't find any. We don't go to the same school; he lives about an hour away from me, but we see each other on weekends from March to May for this team we're both on. This year we've gotten to be really good friends; we talk for like an hour every day on facebook and it's usually really in-depth and sometimes flirty...in person we flirt a lot and hug and he draws hearts and leaves them in my bag for me to find. But when we talk he also talks about other girls and I just don't know his deal. Plus, I just don't think it would work since I'd have a hard time believing that a guy as incredible as he is would be interested in me. The real problem is, he's going to be a freshman at Harvard and I'm only gonna be a senior next year. So, I'll never ever see him again and I just really want to get over him without completely cutting him out from my life. TELL ME HOW.</p>
<p>[A</a> thread that has a special place in my heart as it was one of the first posts that I necro’d.](<a href=“http://web.archive.org/web/20080731101719/http://talk.collegeconfidential.com/high-school-life/533705-erase-mushy-feelings-your-crush.html]A”>http://web.archive.org/web/20080731101719/http://talk.collegeconfidential.com/high-school-life/533705-erase-mushy-feelings-your-crush.html)</p>
<p>why dont u just go ahead and marry him</p>
<p>You don’t have to cut him out. Tell the dean of Harvard that he is an inadequate cheater. Then, he will be expelled. Or, somehow skip your senior year and squeeze yourself a place at Harvard.</p>
<p>JK.</p>
<p>Visit on the holiday breaks, and keep in contact over Facebook.</p>
<p>LOL! Don’t fall for every guy that flirts… we’d have lovesick girls all over the world.
Just move on, there are other people. You obviously see that there are going to problems since he is going to Harvard, so might as well just let it go now.</p>
<p>Just move on? Easier said than done.</p>