<p>My freshman son turned in a miserable set of grades at William and Mary for his first semester. We think he will be allowed to come back, and he would have to do better (couldn't miss, believe me!), but we're not sure that it is wise.</p>
<p>First, his room situation was worried us from the start. It was rundown, had a few very outdated outlets, and was small--smaller than everyone else's on the hallway. In addition, his roommate brought an enormous flatscreen TV and XBox, which is a magnet for everyone on the hall.</p>
<p>My son claims he had sleep issues all semester and started sleeping through his classes. His bike was stolen three times right outside Monroe dorm, which is supposed to be the Scholar's dorm(!). I know he locked it because I drove down there and found it myself, and the thief was still using his bike lock (figured out the combination). On the third and final time, the thief picked the U-Lock that I bought him. This time the bike is gone for good. It was nothing special by the way, just a Costco brand called Northrock. I knew not to buy something expensive or flashy. Still, they wouldn't leave it alone. </p>
<p>It gets worse. His laptop was stolen in the library. Students, he tells me, leave their laptops lying around everywhere in the library, but somehow my son's was the one that was taken. It wasn't an Apple, just a simple Dell I got at Costco. </p>
<p>I talked to the police several times. Like so many William and Mary offices, they are understaffed and overwhelmed, they tell me. A bike is REPORTED STOLEN about once a day there, usually by fellow students. That's just the ones that are reported. They have no real plan for catching the thieves that do this. Essentially what the Captain told me they do is just sit and wait. Wait for the IT person to spot someone logging on to the campus internet using a stolen IP address, wait for the students to go home in May and sort through the leftover bikes. </p>
<p>I called the Dean of Students' office in October. We were afraid that my son was being harassed by someone in his dorm (he is not in a fraternity). The dean was so busy with "hearings," I was told, that he would not be able to return my call for TWO WEEKS. I couldn't believe it. A felony has been committed against one lone freshman four times, and it's not a priority. </p>
<p>My son is ultimately the one responsible for his poor academic performance, but please be warned. The students there have LOTS OF OBSTACLES to overcome when they enroll at William and Mary for their first semester: inadequate living quarters; VERY LARGE classes of 300 students or more for key courses (Biology, World History, Econ, Calculus, to name a few); an out-of-touch and overworked staff that's in charge of their safety and well-being; an honor code that is being ignored by a growing segment of the student body; and a counseling center that is booking appointments three weeks out. </p>
<p>Another interesting aside: in the Monroe Dorm, which houses the brightest 5 percent of the freshmen class, students are failing courses left and right. He knows of six Monroe scholars that have failed Calculus alone. Many are failing Biology. </p>
<p>I would love to know William and Mary's take on this madness. What is the purpose of putting all of this pressure on such a bright group of young adults when you MUST know that you don't have the facilities or the staff to adequately supervise them? Blaming it on budget cuts just is not a responsible answer. These are developing human beings you are working with, and I would think that three suicides in one calendar year (2010) would be a wakeup call for any reasonable administration. </p>
<p>Good luck to all of you on College Confidential.</p>