<p>ahaha, he doesn’t want to be managed anymore. I didn’t either! </p>
<p>I ended up fine! I’m sure he will too. </p>
<p>It’s a pretty normal attitude. You can TRY to help if you must. </p>
<p>It sounds like he’d respond to it better if you did the research yourself and presented him with an argument for the various schools you think would be good for him andn why. Then he MIGHT do further research on his own into your choices. I feel this would work better than you attempting a more collaborative approach. lol</p>