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<p>Aw, how sweet, you demoted women into “things” to “stick” yourself into. But only if we’re skinny and pretty. Well, I understand the need to have pretty things to stick yourself into. Did you confuse women with blow up dolls? I know, tough distinction. </p>
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<h2>“It’s just that I personally wouldn’t feel right dating a guy younger or shorter or thinner than me.”</h2>
<p>Let me clarify something though - I am taller and bigger than her, although 2 years younger.</p>
<p>Does that make it less undesirable?</p>
<p>I probably shouldn’t be worrying so much about this, but I can’t help it.</p>
<p>Give her the old chloroform rag. Works every time</p>
<p>lol a rape joke, how edgy of you</p>
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<p>please, save it for your Gender Studies thesis</p>
<p>I said decent and under 200 lbs. That’s not the same as skinny and pretty. And those are just my personal albeit somewhat tongue-in-cheek standards - I can’t control what I’m attracted to.</p>
<p>I said guys will stick themselves into anything because I did mean literally “stick” (that’s what happens, honey) and I meant literally any-thing. Because that includes inanimate objects. YOU assumed that it was an objectification of women, when, clearly, it was not. I’m ready for your apology.</p>
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<p>Rape jokes are okay but it’s out of line to suggest women aren’t things? </p>
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<p>Don’t patronize me by calling me “honey”. I’m well aware of what sexual intercourse is. So guys would stick themselves into cows? I don’t get your point. </p>
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<p>Oh, yes, that sounds nothing like a woman. You see, I thought you were referring to a female. But what you really meant was an inanimate object the looks decent and is under 200 lbs!</p>
<p>You keep waiting for that apology.</p>
<p>Just like to add something, what’s the worse that could happen? She could reject you and that’s it.</p>
<p>Even if you were older than her, but she didn’t feel any attraction to you, she could still reject you. Just cause she is older doesn’t guarantee she’ll not like you. Just go for it, if it doesn’t work out then too bad.</p>
<p>peter_parker i feel kind of bad for you, hopefully you can find a woman to replace your inanimate objects.</p>
<p>“Let me clarify something though - I am taller and bigger than her, although 2 years younger.”</p>
<p>Yeah I guess that’s fine.
I just hate it when the guys look wimpier than the girls.
It makes for an awkward couple.</p>
<p>I was talking about college guys in general.</p>
<p>And I’m doing just fine with women, thank you.</p>
<p>I was merely descriping the reality of the situation with my original post. If you have a few brain cells, you’d realize I was emphasizing the desperation of many college guys - not some superficiality or shallowness of them. In fact, the post was emphasizing a lack of superficial standards.</p>
<p>Just because it might be a reality you don’t want to hear, doesn’t mean you have to pick something to attack to make yourself feel better, i.e. the post objectifies women somehow. I’m done with this thread because the maturity level here is astounding.</p>
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<p>yea, guys should totally just try to date the girl who is best in the kitchen and at using a vacuum. When girls want to get a job, it’s awkward.</p>
<p>see… gender stereotypes are kind of iffy.</p>
<p>^^ Point taken.</p>
<p>Personally insulting me proves your point so well. I’m stupid, immature, don’t want to face reality, and have no understanding of sex or guys. At least I’m under 200 pounds and decent looking, I’ve got that going for me.</p>
<p>To the OP, just ask the girl out. Worst case she turns you down and you feel a little down for awhile. Hopefully she’ll be nice about it. If you don’t you’ll probably just wonder what could’ve been. Even if you ask and she says no, you can pick yourself up and move on. </p>
<p>It doesn’t matter what other people think, it only matters what the girl thinks. There’s no set way girls think because girls are diverse and all hold different values and such.</p>
<p>Its not really that big of a deal. A lot of people marry each other with around a couple of years of difference- its not weird after high school.</p>
<p>I would agree with the sentiment that there’s no harm in giving it a shot. Even if it might be problematic when she graduates, and depending on her plans maybe it wouldn’t be, that doesn’t mean it can’t be fun for a while. That was kind of the attitude I walked into my relationship with, I didn’t think he was my type at all but he seemed nice, and it turned into something better than I ever expected.</p>