<p>Uhh, greekrank is the worst. It is the problem afer all. Not everyone will think your sorority is great. You may not be the first house the fraternities think about for mixers or 4-ways, but that isn’t why you are in the house, is it? When people smirk or are surprised that you are in your house, just smile and say that you have strong sisterhood. I came from a school that was very competitive and very aware of image. funny thing is, some of the girls that “wouldn’t be caught dead” at Alpha Beta during rush were begging to belong as sophomores when they didn’t get any house during recruitment. I didn’t look down on those girls that didn’t get into a “popular” house, because anyone who hs gone through recruitment knows how random the process can be. The first few rounds are a sea of little cocktail party conversations, and it isn’t until the later rounds that you can really begin to connect. I also learned early on tht the stereotypes of the houses are bogus. There are prom queens in the brains house, athletes in the girly house, scholarship girls in the rich b*tch house, etc. Don’t worry about anything other than being the best sister you can be when it comes to your sorority experience. Be a good ambassador for your group and hold your head high. people can only make you feel bad with your own consent.</p>