<p>I really respect Bay for posting what she did, saying how she sort of envied those girls in the less ranked sororities because there was less airs and trying to impress. It is admirable that someone would admit that. </p>
<p>This statement alone should help the OP feel delighted to be in her down to earth sorority where there are no airs and girls can be themselves. </p>
<p>And nobody has to pretend to be perfect in order to “fit in” like they do to the higher ranked sorority. Because isn’t being perfect (beautiful, skinny, perfect hair, peppy, involved, smart, well dressed) what higher ranked sororities strive for?</p>