<p>I went to a very academically intense high school so I was well prepared for Stanford classes. I have a bit less background in math/physics then some of my classmates but I have a solid enough background and good enough study skills that it works out. Socially... hmm... I went to an all girls high school and in almost every situation I interact with guys like any girl from a co-ed school would. The only exception is that I learned to see every guy as a potential prom date in high school and now there is still a tiny bit of that mentality, but here seeing every guy I meet as a potential boyfriend. I feel that in general I was pretty well prepared for college. </p>
<p>The one thing I wasn't prepared for is that I no longer get all As. It's MUCH harder to get a straight A here than it was in high school. It comes as a shock to most students that they aren't getting all As since most people (like me) assumed they probably still would be. </p>
<p>I don't think I'd change much about what I did in high school. I have really really good study habits which have actually improved since I've arrived on campus. The only thing I wish I had done is get into vocal performance so I could be in a cappella here because it is SO cool. Next year maybe. </p>
<p>I don't go off campus often. I went once for dinner in Palo Alto and visited a friend once in San Fran but that's it. I also went to Target one day to get stuff for Halloween. It's not hard to go off campus but there's enough on campus that most people don't bother. </p>
<p>If I knew what I know now last year Stanford would definitely be my first choice and I wouldn't have bothered apply to Yale or Swarthmore after getting in here EA. I don't think there's anyone here who wouldn't come back to Stanford if they could do it all over again. </p>
<p>Living expenses... hmm... that mostly depends on if you can put up with the same type of food every day. Once a week or so I usually get non-dining hall food, so maybe $5 or so for that. Total other expenses so far probably about $150 including pass to Flicks (they show recently released movies on campus once a week), any sports games, Halloween stuff, food for my room, etc. </p>
<p>For Thanksgiving there are families who will take in a couple of Stanford students for the day so they can not be all alone on Thanksgiving. </p>
<p>For the fin aid you're best off applying to whatever schools you want to go to and then compare fin aid packages. It's possible that for you you could get more aid from Stanford. Who knows.</p>