Let me try to give you a real world experience, not conjecture or friendly and thoughtful advice.</p>
<p>My son was in a similar situation in the Spring of 2004. He had been accepted early at Yale (his dream school) and was also named a Morehead winner in early March. After April 1 he also had acceptances in hand from Stanford, Wash U (with significant money) and yes, Princeton.</p>
<p>My S attended an all boys very elite private school with a graduating class of 82. Over 27% of his class matriculated at HYPSM. He was one of seven in his class accepted to Yale and the only one who chose not to attend. The Morehead nomination was a big honor and led to some difficult choices when the other acceptances started to roll in. Once he was admitted to Yale (SCEA) and knew he was a Morehead finalist, he withdraw apps from Pomona, Dartmouth, Amherst and one or two others. We encouraged him to keep his Princeton, Stanford and Wash U apps in for merit money purposes although in his mind, it was either going to be Yale or UNC.</p>
<p>When he became a Morehead finalist he asked one of his teachers who was someone he looked to as a trusted mentor, what he should do if he got into Yale and won the Morehead. His teacher essentially said it was a “no brainer” and that he should take the Morehead. You need to understand that this school lives, eats, and breathes HYPMS from the time you arrive as a first grader and the teacher in question had spent many years at a top prep school in the northeast (Exeter) which is an Ivy feeder so his comments were interesting to say the least. He said that at Yale my son would be one of about 1300, albeit a very talented 1300 while as a Morehead he’d be one of forty (his year) and would be exposed to the best of the best at UNC. He was dead on in his assessment.</p>
<p>After we visited UNC, met the Morehead staff as well as current Morehead Scholars I had an epiphany of sorts and came to realize that the day he entered school at UNC he would have a built-in peer group of kids just like him and would have a staff of professional mentors who were not only interested in seeing him succeed but also highly financially invested in his success.</p>
<p>To be totally honest with you, I think that EAmom and I had the hardest time throughout the process trying to give up the Ivy dream and the thought of not being able to put the Yale sticker in our car back windows. My grandfather was an immigrant who arrived in the US in 1903 with $10 and ended up working in the coal mines of W Va until he died in his forties of black lung, so the thought that three generations later we’d have someone at Yale was making things very difficult for us. It was very easy for us to get over it when we saw how happy and excited he was once he was at UNC and how he was thriving and growing each year. He never regretted his decision and several years ago said that he couldn’t even see himself at Yale at that time.</p>
<p>As someone has already said, virtually EVERY winner of the Morehead or Robertson has to choose between HYPMS or the scholarships. In my S’s Morehead class (of 43) there were six others who turned down Yale and several others who turned down H and P that I am aware of and even one girl who was a double Stanford legacy!</p>
<p>His roommate at finalist weekend (who was OOS) turned down the Morehead and went to Princeton. They have stayed in touch through the years and he has always somewhat regretted his decision. And to add another perspective, when we were doing move in freshman year, my son had a visitor who was a young man from nearby in NC that he had met at Finalist weekend who didn’t win the Morehead. He was heading off to Princeton but truly wished he had won the Morehead.</p>
<p>On a personal note I can’t share on these forums all that the support he received from the Foundation staff throughout his four years, but I can tell you that he would have NEVER received that kind of support at Yale or anywhere else.</p>
<p>He had life changing summer experiences, got an incredible education, had an undergrad experience that was amazing, has an enormous circle of friends that he remains very close to and graduated absolutely debt free. He was very well prepared for professional school and is doing quite well as a first year med student at a top ten school.</p>
<p>Echoing his old HS teacher and mentor…it really is a no brainer…