<p>We were forewarned about closed sections during the college visit at Bama Bound.</p>
<p>But it was not because there were two other BB sessions before us.</p>
<p>It was because the upperclassmen had already registered.</p>
<p>They asked us to hang in there. This will probably be the only time this will happen.</p>
<p>So be flexible.</p>
<p>Remember, the upperclassmen were where you are right now. They had to delay taking a course because it was filled when they were incoming freshmen. And you know what, they’re fine. They graduated. The world did not end.</p>
<p>There was a great ending presentation at Bama Bound that touched on delaying gratification.</p>
<p>Although this presentation dealt more with spending money and other such matters, one can apply the same to scheduling classes.</p>
<p>My son did not get the classes that fit perfectly in his planned curriculum. And he did not get the classes that he had as backup plans, either.</p>
<p>But he made informed choices that he hadn’t even planned for, and looked at the positive aspects of his choices, rather than crying that he didn’t get what he wanted.</p>
<p>As adults, we know that there will be disappointments in life all along the way, and it was a good experience as incoming freshmen for them to encounter their first disappointment right off the bat and make the most of what they get.</p>
<p>I would encourage you to foster this positive attitude in your child. If you cry and say, I’m going to hate class such and such because I didn’t get the honors section or I didn’t get the professor I wanted, you’re going to set yourself up for failure.</p>
<p>If you look at it like, This is the hand I was dealt, I’m going to do the best I can. Maybe I didn’t get Professor such and such, but I’ve got 65 kids in my class, rather than 150. I’ve got an easier day on such and such a day because I didn’t get into this class, and instead have this schedule, which might actually work better for me. </p>
<p>Roll with the punches. Be Patient. It’s what life is all about.</p>