<p>Its already two years and I still havent found a permanent niche, because I never maintain contact with my friends after the semester is over. I tried joining some clubs but I always quit after a few weeks because it was just too embarrassing having other people thinking that Im quiet. I dont really feel that theyre going to ask me to hang out outside of the club anyway, and its too awkward for me to ask because I dont want them to know about me being stuck in a rut. Plus, it seems like everyone already knew someone there, so it felt unsettling going to clubs and events alone. Ive tried getting jobs but everyone else already has more experience from high school. I guess I should have just tried harder when I was younger when things were much easier. Its like some jinx is following me, because everyone else takes these things for granted. I might have to get an internship or something soon, and at this point it feels like its going to take a heroic effort just to catch up much less stand out from the crowd.</p>
<p>It wouldn't hurt to try an internship! Maybe you've got my problem. In general, college kids and I don't see eye to eye.</p>
<p>Most of my friends are:
a) Guys I went to HS with who share my common beliefs (and have had limited success finding a niche/peer group at college)
b) People who are much older (6+ years) than me
c) People who are younger than me (some of whom are now at college)</p>
<p>Noting point "b", I got a job where I would be the youngest and I get along great there and have met some awesome co-workers. I've also bonded with one of my co-worker's sons, who is 11. (I get along really well with the 8-12 crowd...a good thing since I'm an elementary ed major). My previous job was the same way.</p>