<p>I am a parent with a very alternative kid. We had an agreement--she could do ANYTHING she wanted to her hair, but wouldn't pierce anything but her ears or belly button and wouldn't tattoo anywhere until after college.</p>
<p>After college, she had grown-up and realized that permanent markings could separate her from her career goals, which involved community organizing.</p>
<p>I certainly got the better of the deal, but so did she.</p>