Struggling...pls give me some advice

<p>Trust me, frat parties are not as fun as they look.</p>

<p>hey why donesnt everyone here meet up! that way u wont be lonely :)
but ya i can relate...i have plenty of acquainatnces her but i dont know its really hard to say who the real friends are</p>

<p>That's what I've thought a lot of people here should do, haha. I've heard various people on these boards talk about how they have not found a close group they can hang out with. If they all met up, they would have a group! And if they got a long, wow!</p>

<p>as banana girl said, I think its time we had CC meeting #2!!! Who's for it?</p>

<p>Thx for all the support. It's good to kno I am not alone and that the Greek life is overrated.</p>

<p>Well for now, I'll look around campus for stuff to occupy myself with and study a LOT more. Because I just bombed my first midterm, lol...anyone taking math 3c?</p>

<p>My roommate's taking that. Brose? She's like, dying. I feel so bad for her.</p>

<p>yeah that German lady is making the class impossible. I dont understand why probability has to be such a complex concept. =/</p>

<p>Get out of your room as much as possible, paste a smile on your face, and say hi to everyone in your dorm. Give yourself some time, this is all still new to you. My bet is that by Thanksgiving you will be feeling much better about your college life.</p>

<p>^unfortunately that's not really an option if you live in: sunset village, hitch, saxon, parts of deneve, summit, terrace, vista.</p>

<p>also thursday nights are not some big frat night where every frat parties. its usually only one or two that hosts a huge one. frats generally have small parties for members and friends on friday. </p>

<p>i like meeting freshmen. let's have another meetup, agreed.</p>

<p>i met a lot of (social) people while living in sunset...</p>

<p>Remember that 3 weeks into high school, the people you were hanging out with probably weren't the same people that you considered your closest friends by the end of your senior year. Give it some time.</p>

<p>You can meet people in Sunset, but I think the general consensus is that if you dont put yourself out there (100% effort), you won't magically make friends.</p>