<p>Im a academic guy. I spend hours studying, going to clubs, and building my fitness via sports/gym. However, lately, in college Ive been getting REALLY bored of EVERYTHING I do. IT feels like Im going thru the motions, etc. It's all 'been there done that'. Oh, just another night of studying like before.
Anyhow, I really want to meet girls. Im not being superficial but I have never had a girlfriend and it would be nice to have a bunch of friends that are girls. In fact, meeting really cool people in general would be nice.
Ive tried joining clubs and Ive joined like 3-4 so far and you know its not too helpful. The people there just do whatever they do in the club (i.e. play tennis in tennis club) Socializing with them yields few results and Ive only managed to meet a few acquaintances (as always... same thing happens with everything: talking to people in dorms, gym, etc.)
Anyhow, I decided to rush a single prehealth frat: Dem. Somehow it seems I may have got a bid. But I dont know if this is for me. A lot of guys in the frat:meh. Some girls. None that are too attractive (again, I am not superficial, honestly!) But honestly, Id be all for it if it werent for:
-this frat takes up time. I have to do community service and all this other stuff. My work schedule is incredibly hard already!
-Dont know if this will be my solution for my outlet for meeting girls. (again, NOT superficial. I also enjoy it because it is a pre health frat and Im premed and it seems very academic) I have a feeling it might not be , and Im not entirely sure if this is one of those frats that parties... it being a prehealth frat and all
-It's one of the only ones Ive rushed. I dont know what others are like.So.... My main question of this thread: What type of frat should I join to meet girls? I dont want to make the wrong choice and join this prehealth frat and realize it's just another class where I have to commit time I dont have to volunteer/etc. I really just want something new in my life other than school. Namely a good social life, etc. Maybe Im joining the wrong sorts of frat? Is there a frat that specializes in social stuff? I dont want to join a frat with beer guzzling jocks. however, I do see a lot of attractive girls in sororities...
-Honestly, I feel like there is no secret club or pill thatll do it. It seems that the best way to meet girls is through your social circle. Unfortunately, I just dont have that x factor or whatever and have very few friends.</p>
<p>My schools about 22,000 undergrad
12% greek
Im a sophomore
Music minor (which takes up a ton of time and why Im worried) will last this year and next. Meaning Ill be ‘free’ by senior year</p>