On a different and more serious note- One of my daughters close friends goes to Harvard. She stayed with her while they were here for the weekend game. She was in love with the campus, the buildings, the food and the thing she said was the most different is that all of the social gatherings (ok,mostly campus parties) were inclusive. She said that every gathering at Harvard is invite only and if you are not on the guest list you are not invited. This is not the case at Yale. She said that it makes it hard to meet people and relax because unless you already know certain connections, you will not be welcome. That seemed rather cold and closed to me. Oh, and she also loved Toads, for the dancing of course…LOL