<p>My son is a plebe at West Point. His "homeboys" are all back too. The only reason we see our son is that he has a 60 inch HDTV in his attic room (bought it from his summer earnings) and his room has become the videogaming and movie center for him and his buddies. He stays up til all hours and sleeps til noon plus every day. Given the regimentation he has at school - e.g. getting up at 5 a.m. to clear the waste on his barracks floor - we give him all the slack he wants when he's home.</p>