<p>Hi, CC parents, </p>
<p>I've been lurking for several days but something has just come up with S and i'd like to get your opinions. </p>
<p>I live in NY and S1 is a student at a Texas state school. He's enjoying it and is double majoring in international relations and international business. He also loves languages, having studied French, Italian, Arabic, Spanish, and most recently, Russian. He's also very eager to study abroad, which H and i are encouraging him to do because we never had that opportunity in college. </p>
<p>Last semester, he had to fulfill some sort of world history requirement, and to do that, he took a Russian history class that he enjoyed very much. It was a small class, and he ended up as one of the professor's favorite students. He also got obsessed with the idea of studying abroad in Russia, and this professor recommended a program for him. S1 is very excited about the prospect of doing this program - a whole summer in St. Petersburg, Russia! </p>
<p>However, I'm VERY concerned for his safety. We are most emphatically not "Russian-looking" - H and I are both black. I've read some truly chilling things about foreign students/immigrants being assaulted and murdered in Russia by violent Russian nationalists, and I've read that sadly this type of crime is on the rise. I had no idea about this phenomenon and I couldn't believe it was true. </p>
<p>Just try to imagine my shock when I casually Googled "Russia crime" and was barraged with pages of sad videos and articles about victims of violent nationalism in Russia - black students afraid to leave their dorms, an Armenian woman whose husband was beaten to death in broad daylight by skinheads, Chinese students beaten on the Moscow metro, Central Asian workers dragged into the forest and decapitated on VIDEO with knives. I asked a Russian acquaintance of mine about all this and she said that sadly, it was all true and that those types of attacks rarely make headlines and that the perpetrators are either given extremely lenient punishments or are not punished at all. </p>
<p>And THEN, as if i wasn't already beside myself, i read that St. Petersburg has the highest incidence of this type of crime. I just can't fathom the thought of S1 even being verbally harassed by these people. I know that old axiom that "racism is everywhere" (and before you tell me that I'm being narrow-minded, that there's plenty of racism here - trust me, i KNOW that) but I just don't know if Russia is a safe place for my son to be all summer. I also realize that not ALL Russians are like this, and that most foreign students probably study in Russia without any real issues. I'm just afraid to subscribe to the line of thinking that "it'll never happen to me."</p>
<p>I just don't know how to express these concerns to him without hurting his feelings. I want him to be happy, but I also want him to be safe. What would you do in my place? Thank you so much in advance.</p>