<p>@thumper1</p>
<p>No, I didn’t ask for FA from Stanford while applying REA because I was afraid it will hurt my chances if I do. My couselor specifically advised me to not request FA. It’s not that my parent’s won’t pay. They will pay by getting loans and probably selling our house and moving to a much smaller one. I didn’t know they were planning to do this when I applied without asking FA to Stanford. I asked, will you be able to pay, and they said yes, they didn’t tell me they were thinking of loans. I don’t want them to sacrifice that for me, it’s not fair to them or my sisters and it’s quite ridiculous to sell our house for my collge tuition. So I guess the central issue is that I don’t agree with my parents on what they can pay or if they SHOULD pay.
“If your parents are able and willing to pay for you to attend college you do not have any issues”
Ah but I don’t agree with them on HOW they’re willing to pay!
So what I’m looking for are scholarships or anything else I can do to take the burden off them, going back to my original question, how does the aid system in US work… Thanks to the links posted in the responses I’ve got a rough picture of it now:P</p>
<p>@KatMT</p>
<p>“You will need to figure out school by school what the total cost of attendance (including tuition, fees, room, board, books, travel, etc…), and look at the need-based and merit based aid for internationals. Compare those numbers with what your family can spend for you to attend college, what need based aid for which you will qualify, and what merit based aid for which you will qualify at each school.”
Thanks for this advice, yes I think I will do this;) Estimating 60,000 a year, and subtract the 30,000 that my parents will actually be able to pay (without them getting bank loans and selling the house), I need to get need-based FA, merit-based FA or scholarships that cover 30,000. So (@thumper 1) I’m not looking for external scholarships that will cover the total costs…</p>
<p>“Naive, unrelated question… is the college system in Korea substandard? I just saw a documentary about the high quality of post college education in Korea.”
I’ll say that the college system in Korea is better than the high school system in Korea, and the high school system is horrible. Colleges in Korea are not insufficient or lacking in rigor or anything, and I believe Seoul National University, the #1 in Korea, is ranked (average between the world rankings) around #120, which is pretty good… but the atmostphere of schools in Korea is very different from those in Europe or the States (I’ve lived and gone to school in the States also). I understand that I will be sitting in lectures and getting information drilled into me in a lot of the US colleges too, I’m not expecting US colleges to be completely liberal/student oriented. But in Korea the general consensus on what a student should or should not do/study is discomforting. To me at least… Everything’s so passive and conservative and geared toward practical objectives, and for example, in history classes you just DON’T talk about things such as the Cold War cause it’s controversial, and students can never really express opinions if they disagree with the professor. Medical schools in Korea are superb, so are research facilities and government-funded science-centered institutions like KAIST(Korea Advanced Institute of Science and Technology). But for me (interests are IR, film, literature and cultural and ethnic studies) Korean universities are not very appealing!</p>
<p>@happymomof1</p>
<p>“You cannot get a loan in the US without a US citizen or permanent resident who is willing to cosign”
We have family friends in the US (my dad graduated Ann Arbor and my godmother’s husband is American) so if I really need a loan it wouldn’t be a problem getting a cosigner</p>
<p>Yes I’ve considered European universities, and OMG YES universities in Germany are FREEEEEEE
But my German isn’t fluent enough, at least academically… and one of my possible majors is literature:P YES!!! I talked to my couselor just a few minutes ago (in the library after school right now) and I think I will apply to UBC and McGill in addition to my nine US schools:)
thanks for your other advice(s) too, though no I don’t want to attend a women’s college and I’m agnostic (just something funny: me, agnostic. dad, atheist. mom, Protestant. grandmother, Catholic. grandfather, Buddhist. LOL)</p>