<p>Wow!! Thank you all for all your input. This discussion is very helpful and is giving us a lot of ideas to pursue.</p>
<p>Yes, income is <$40000, though there a $5000 clergy housing allowance in the unearned income section. But we live in a pretty depressed part of the country with low housing costs, free wood for heating, and no pressure to keep up appearances, so we feel pretty middle class. I do feel bad for folks who live in expensive places because I’m sure we do better than many urban people at twice our income, yet FA doesn’t seem to account for that very well. </p>
<p>PSAT was 214, which will not make the NYS cutoff. DS was very angry with himself about that, but I think he’s come to terms with it. </p>
<p>Poking through the NPCs, it looks like the Ivies, MIT, Stanford are our cheapest options except for commuting to Binghamton, which is the worst case scenario. How blessed are we that that is the worst case? Maybe looking to someplace like Alabama as a safety, as well as Buffalo and Stony Brook, because you all are right, looking at the repayment schedules, the Staffords should be doable even if he chooses a short repayment schedule (which we’ll encourage).</p>
<p>ucbalumnus, you said “there are other even bigger merit automatic scholarships at schools with engineering.” Can you point me in the right direction?</p>
<p>We are being very conservative with parental borrowing because my youngest is scarily creative and musical, but that doesn’t translate into the high stats that his brother and sister have, and we need to keep as much in reserve as we can for him. Even then, he’s probably looking at 2 years at CC to start, unless he does amazing things gradewise in 10th and 11th grades.</p>
<p>And no football…he’s really not interested, and really REALLY not interested in leading any coaches to believe that he might play. He’s a very straight shooter .</p>