First, I’m deeply sorry for your loss @MaineLonghorn. Unfortunately, I’ve seen the pain survivors experience too many times.
It’s a balancing act between reporting suicide, supporting survivors, and remembering the deceased for more than the act of suicide while not giving attention that glorifies the act in the eyes of other distressed individuals. I wouldn’t say it puts it in someone’s head but more makes it seem like a more valid option to someone already contemplating suicide.
People need to not be afraid to ask a de stressed individual if they are thinking about suicide. Often it’s comforting that they can say it out loud for the first time. No, not everyone gives signs and many would be surprised at some who have contemplated suicide in a serious manner.