Summer Melt - Making the wrong college decision?

<p>Let me ask you a very honest question…did you truly have “space” and “time” to go through a list of pros and cons in your “own” mind NOT influenced/tainted by your parents, friends or acquaintances?</p>

<p>Were YOU allowed to make the final choice between your school choices without undue pressure from “outside” influences? </p>

<p>…for you to be still wavering like this going into August tells me you are not HAPPY with your decision…</p>

<p>…I know what you are going through…since my children had to make tough choices as well…</p>

<p>…as parents, we gave our children room, space, time, with list of pros and cons for all the schools involved to discover where they would be the happiest…and not to be concerned about what “we” thought since we were not the ones “attending” school…they were…</p>

<p>…if you truly did your DUE DILIGENCE in examining both schools independently…free of bias…from certain forces telling you “should” go to a certain school for its “name”…then you made the right choice…</p>

<p>…BUT, if you feel, even today that you did not have this opportunity…to go through this checks and balances…on your own “TERMS”…you may feel “cheated” and therefore still “regret” your decision…unfortunately…</p>

<p>…I feel for you…nevertheless, it is time to move on…best of wishes!</p>

<p>N.B. I hope that future students and parents reading this will learn from this OP’s situation…and prevent this from happening to your child…</p>