To put a finer point on some of the issues being discussed.
- While a candidate for recruitment may get several LL offers, it is only good form to accept one. As the acceptance of a LL comes well in advance of the application and actual issuance of the LL, it is a verbal contract and when made after July 1st before senior year is considered binding.
The acceptance of more than one LL can cause many problems for the recruiting ecosystem and have a domino effect in a given recruiting year.
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It is always better to send too many emails than not enough.
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Nothing is ever done until the LL is received.
Some fun (in hindsight) anecdotes:
My older son was a late bloomer in his sport and didn’t get recruitable results until his junior year. By then, many coaches had already made their picks and we were going into the summer before senior year with a lot of unanswered emails. In our sport there is a summer championship (with many college coaches attending) that determines their final national ranking for the year, and many kids announce their binding commitments at that time (July 1).
Our son had a breakout performance at that championship. The top candidate that year, both athletically and academically, was widely expected to go to the most prestigious Ivy, but surprised everyone with the July 1st announcement he would go to the Ivy with the most dominant record. This caused a domino effect in our recruiting class where all commitments made up until that point had been non-binding (for both sides), and the school who thought they had recruited the top guy (and stopped answering emails from potential recruits) had a big hole in the plans. While this coach had not answered many of our son’s emails before the summer, he was in immediate contact on July 2nd. In the month after that summer championship, our son received 4 LL offers, and ultimately accepted one of them. Ironically, the coach whose offer we accepted confessed that he never answered emails (as english was not his first language), but did answer phone calls and met most students/parents when they came up to him at competitions. Wish we had known that earlier as we thought there was no interest from this program.
Our younger son attended a summer camp run by his first choice school between his sophomore/junior year and the head coach told us at the end that while he could not promise anything, he liked our son and wanted to recruit him. We were thrilled until January of junior year when we learned that he had extended two LL offers (which had been accepted) to some juniors who were higher-ranked. We were crushed. In February, our son was offered a LL from another Ivy, but it was not one where there was an academic fit. The coach there said we had some time to think about it and he would tell us when he needed our firm commitment. We pressed programs at other schools for any interest and everyone said they had their 1st choice LL offers out, so they could not make any further offers until they had answers from their 1st choices. In early April (of junior year), the coach who made our son his only LL offer said he needed an answer by the end of the week. That was a long week as our son did not want to go to that school, but it was the only offer we had. Just before we were scheduled to call the coach to accept the LL offer, we had our son call the coach of his first choice school to tell him he would be accepting another school’s offer. On that phone call, the coach of the first choice school told him that one of the kids who accepted his LL offer had just withdrawn (to join the military) and if our son wanted the LL, it was his. That was a great day.
I guess my msg to the OP is, there is no formula, and success can come at different times and in different ways. Just don’t give up hope, stay in it, and exhaust every option before October 1st.