I still am stuck on the inability to identify academically elite schools with slower swim teams.
With all the schools the OP has identified that are too fast, there must be programs in those leagues/divisions that lose to these fast teams? These slower teams should be part of the widening net the OP needs to cast.
For example, for students focused on the Ivy League in almost all varsity sports, Brown is the destination most of the less-accomplished athletes (but great students) target. I am sure the other leagues/conferences have schools with similar characteristics.
I continue to feel the Canadian schools represent the OP’s best chances, however, it has not been disclosed if there have been any positive discussions with the coaches of those programs.
Ironically, I feel the second best chance for the OP is Stanford. While it is true this is currently the hardest school to get into on the planet, their hook is double legacy, so that is one more hook than the OP currently has at other schools. For the rest of the swim/non-swim list, without a recruiting offer, the OP’s daughter is unhooked.
The OP has mentioned their URM/ORM status. If it is possible play the URM card while downplaying the ORM card that could be another hook.
Stanford being #2 is representative of my feelings of the possibility of unhooked miracles for international candidates for the other schools on the OPs list.
It is worth noting, as an international family, the OP may not realize some of the nuances that underlie admissions data that the domestic elite schools publish. A published general admit rate of X%, generally includes athletes and legacies. If you adjust those numbers to take those hooks into account, the unhooked admit rate is substantially lower than X%
The reason I mention this is the athletic admissions hook is a huge advantage. I urge the OP to find a school that thinks his daughter is fast.