<p>Ok, this girl always invites me to events, writes me messages on facebook, and talks to me when I am with her..but sometimes it also seems she is trying to avoid me..like she used to study in the quiet room in the dorm and I used to see her often but now I rarely see her. I don't know if she likes me and I am confused..help me out.</p>
<p>try asking her out on a date. Seriously people, to anyone asking stuff like this, just go out there and live. If she doesn't like you, that sucks and if she does...great. you know, even if you never ask her out or if she likes you, she still will have the same opinion in her head. Don't be afraid because that's just delaying the inevitable.</p>
<p>do you actually say its a date or casually ask her out? sorry I am not too experienced with this .</p>
<p>first, just ask her if she wants to go out. try hitting a movie and then pay for it, you kinda just made it a date in a very casual and un-rude manner. Just read her body language from there, figure her out and go from there. it doesn't take practice to be with someone, it just takes two people. be yourself and if it doesn't work then it doesn't work. Cry, Calm, and Continue. If it does work out, I expect you to mail me lots and lots of money for my advice.</p>
<p>just whip it out and see what she thinks</p>
<p>wow, that actually sound sort of like me with this one guy about a year ago. I would say if she frequently invites you to events it probably means something. definitely ask her on a date. but don't leave it constantly vague as to whether it's a date or just grabbing food or something. you should know which it is.</p>
<p>VeganActress, so did you actually like the guy?...lol
I actually did ask her out for dinner on, but she told me she was going out with her friends and she'll go some other time.</p>
<p>when she invites you to events, is it through FB? Often times people on FB just invite their whole friend list and are not very discriminating. </p>
<p>It sounds like she's either shy or not interested. Sometimes girls just like interesting conversation. I'd leave it alone, it sounds like you tried and that's all you can do. for now.</p>
<p>I agree with aspring. If she was really that vague and just said "going out" and "some other time" it looks like she is trying to say no without actually rejecting you in order to preserve the friendship.</p>
<p>I'd back off and if she brings up the dinner herself you're in. If not, put her in the friends category and move on.</p>
<p>Yeah, you should figure out if she sends the invites to everyone or just you. I get invited to a lot of events by people who I hardly speak with, probably just because they were being lazy and sent out invites to everyone.</p>
<p>^ I do that all the time</p>
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<p>lol. (10 char)</p>
<p>yeah, when you ask a girl out, if she says she's busy and doesn't propose a decently specific time, she's not interested. For example:</p>
<p>Interested: Sorry, I'm busy this week, call me on friday when i'm done with all my midterms
Not Interested: Sorry, I'm busy this week, maybe some other time.</p>
<p>yuo are suh a lsoer</p>
<p>that sounds exactly like i was with some guy....i did not like him. i thought i was just being friendly!...but i guess he got the wrong idea. so whenever he would ask me to dinner or w/e i'd do the whole "i'm busy now, some other time"...nd then after a while he got all p issy cuz i was being vague. so that's my story. doesn't mean that this girl doesn't like you though...</p>
<p>She hates you.</p>
<p>And she's seeing someone else.</p>
<p>Ask her out. If she says no but you're still interested, go to the gym, become irresistably muscular and attractive, then ask her out again. If she still says no, then I'd bet a lot of other girls would be more than willing to date you. </p>
<p>Sound good?</p>
<p>hey she actually invited me to come with her friends that time..but I didn't...I get the feeling she doesn't want a boyfriend right now..whatever, I dont care anymore.</p>
<p>you probably do care but in denial</p>
<p>When she invites you to events, are they boring? Or she invites you to meet her friends? if she invites you to boring things, she doesnt want anything with you, she wants to look boring so you dont ask her out. if she invites to meet her friends they are 2 posiblities, the 1st is she wants to be your friend nothing else, and the 2nd would be, she wants you to meet her friends to have an approval by them. This shows a unconfident girl, it is better to dont start any relationship, it would end bad! But if she invites you to a eatsomething or she insinuate, a one-n-one meeting, go for it. Also never show you want to have anything with her, because if she want you for a friend it is very uncomftable. I hope this whole thing works out fast, being confused is a horrible feeling. Good luck!</p>