<p>i totally agree with u man...the american people are too trusting and they go to foreign countries to be robbed and spat at by the les serveurs et les personnes aux haute culture.</p>
<p>i just HATE girls that pretend to be nice and interested in u and everything. i sometimes want to just smack them. just be urselves, people. why do u have to ask these silly questions of "does she like me?" why don't u use ur time more productively.. </p>
<p>to the op: trust me; u'll get a girl friend if pay THIS much attention to girls...sheesh.</p>
<p>She might be just as unexperienced and nervous, too--thus the mixed signals.</p>
<p>Honestly, the best thing a guy can do is to ask to just hang out. Give a time constraint; girls do not want to commit to something they are doubtful about. She could actually like you, but just as any normal person they may feel doubtful thoughts come into mind when it sounds life changing or intense. Dont ask her to a movie it is the easiest way to become awkward. Just asking to go out for lunch or hang out at any creative place you can think of will make an easy simple date. </p>
<p>As for all the facebook messages and getting invited to invents, the chances are she is doing it with more than one guy. Obviously its easy to use the internet and invite people to a public function. The only way to find out if she is interested in you is to get to know her, one on one through simple dates and hanging out. Im at ASU right now so Im not sure if it works on girls the same way here as it does where you are, but I hope the advice helps.</p>